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Old 04-09-2007, 12:27 AM
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Because I think there's a real image problem here man. All four of my school's councils went on a retreat together and after playing the stereotype game (yes it's a real game we play, and apparently NIC fraternities are all snobby white date rapists) the elephant in the room was NPHC and their notorious hazing methods (severe beatings, etc).

Now I guess you could take the easy road and pin me as a racist, but you have to admit that there is a hardcore element of physical hazing impressed on the NPHC culture.

Some things remain the same: The "white" NIC houses get busted having "Ghetto Parties" or they force a pledge to drink himself to death and the media goes nuts. The NPHC houses get busted beating the crap out of a pledge and he winds up in the hospital and the media goes nuts.

Now the APhiA thing.....it could be that there is a real epidemic here OR it could be that APhiA gets the most hazing stories because they're the largest BGLO.

YOU haven't answered my question. Nobody is calling you a racist. I do, however, think you need to stay in your lane on YOUR campus.

The difference between you and I is when a fraternity (or SEVERAL) have racist parties or drink a pledge to death, I still don't view it as an issue that your ENTIRE NATIONAL ORGANIZATION has failed to address. I view it as some members breaking the rules. I would expect that same courtesy from a fellow Greek.
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Old 04-09-2007, 01:14 AM
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Now the APhiA thing.....it could be that there is a real epidemic here OR it could be that APhiA gets the most hazing stories because they're the largest BGLO.
On your campus?
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Old 04-09-2007, 01:59 AM
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And yes we suspend individuals and whole chapters. Heck we even expel individuals for life.
Amen. and for much less than this.
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Old 04-09-2007, 08:52 AM
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Well I've never heard of Fertility Rituals but I have heard of all kinds of hazing on the part of NIC fraternities.....I just rarely hear about them physically beating pledges....it's usually something like drinking them to death or humiliating them (which isn't better really) all I know is that you've gotta be one dumbass punk to let a bunch of 20 year olds torture you for one or two semesters just to get initiated.
So what is your point, really?

There is no dignity or pride in being "forced" to drink alcohol to the point where you can cause serious harm to yourself or die. A person who is injured or killed through alcohol is no less of a dumbass punk than the one hurt or killed through beatings.
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Old 04-09-2007, 09:09 AM
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The problem here is too much defensiveness. The truth is that for historically white and historically black GLOs there are differing cultures of hazing, which go beyond talk of individual responsibility and transcend national Greek affiliation. Yes, alcohol abuse is a very serious (and ocaasionally deadly!) problem with the former and physical hazing represents the same for the latter. We have to look at these things head on.

I see the "white groups" instituting all kinds of educational programs, including "dry houses" (which many actives and chapters disregard or rebel against said programs) and you still see the stories of deaths due to alcohol poisonings; and physical hazing continues to be single biggest threat to the survivial of BGLOs,even though pledging was done away with. In truth, now,it's simply become a sub rosa ("underground") activity.

It's not so much about the sensationalized stories of hazing by whatever BGLO gets the headlines for an egregious hazing incident, where the Nupes and the Apes have garnered the most headlines recently, it's about the fact that this is the tip of the iceberg, extreme examples of common place behaviour. The same goes for "white" groups and alcohol abuse. On the whole, though, I do think the "white" groups have addressed the alcohol abuse problem in their groups in a more integral way than BGLOs have physical hazing, as a part of the "culture" of the organizations. (Just as we are not fully comfortable in dealing with the issue of homophobia in the context of the AIDS crisis in the African American community at large---from the street corner to the church.) This is what Prof. Ricky Jones, Ph.D. (a Nupe) is trying to do with his book, "Black Haze"; he has received chilly if not hostile responses from some Black Greeks for his radical means of addressing physical hazing:dismantling the organizations if they don't deal with this issue forthright.

We're past the point of defensiveness. Ultimately, Greek Life as we know it is at stake--for all groups. This is the real issue.
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Old 04-09-2007, 09:42 AM
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The problem here is too much defensiveness.
No.

The problem is figuring out why that poster is acting like an NIC culture of binge drinking and whatever the hell else they do is remotely more noble than an alleged NPHC culture of paddling/beating. Every national body does things to prevent hazing and punishes those who are caught. Hazing still happens for every type of organization. The form of hazing doesn't matter.

Moving on.
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Old 04-09-2007, 10:17 AM
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awesome, another thread developing into a racial issue
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Old 04-09-2007, 10:18 AM
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awesome, another thread developing into a racial issue
KyleMcGuire is the only one who tried to make it into one.
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Old 04-09-2007, 10:52 PM
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The OSU students were in shock???!!! That makes me laugh.

Uh PrettyBoy, considering your siggy you are hardly one to be posting about the hazing of another fraternity.
My siggy? Ooops. Did I type that?
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