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Old 03-26-2007, 01:19 AM
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Pardon my ignorance, what on earth is that thing that resembles an IV pump attached to the headboard in that drawing?
I don't know, I hadn't noticed it till you said something...a lamp?

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I don't think the desire for asshole penetration equals gay.
Hmmm....I think we all KNOW that it doesn't, but most of us are thinking it anyway. That's the first thing that came into my head, anyway. But then again, I know a lesbian couple who used to have sex with one being "the man" by using a strap-on. The whole dorm knew that they were doing this, so everyone wondered, "If the other girl liked being vaginally penetrated by a penis-looking dildo, why didn't she just have sex with guys?"
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Old 03-26-2007, 01:39 AM
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So does one need special needs equipment to enjoy simulations?

Personally, I think no.

And I would not choose to actively engage in that activity, nor have I ever engaged in that activity. That's me.

Look, you don't allow people to violated your space. Sexual Expression is different from Voyerism. It is about comfortability and enjoyment between 1+ person(s). But hey, if folks want to think this "fast food instant gratification" will satisfy thier soul being/essence, then far be it from me to prevent them. I only say these things because I resided on my own crafted nightmare of sex abuse Hell.
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Old 03-26-2007, 09:22 AM
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Pardon my ignorance, what on earth is that thing that resembles an IV pump attached to the headboard in that drawing?
I'm going to go with enema over Senusret's suggestion of douchbag but that's just a guess. You would, of course, want your man to be clean before pegging him.

(To answer the question: No and No, it's not something that interests me)
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Old 03-26-2007, 10:34 AM
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I don't know many who will admit it, but one of my female friends REALLY does enjoy it, and I can't figure it out either, what with the whole lack of a prostate thing.
Supposedly the nerves from the g-spot and the clitoris can all be stimulated through anal because they're far reaching, thus explaining some women's preference for anal.

Also no and no.
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Old 03-26-2007, 11:04 AM
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I guess I will answer my own question.

No and maybe. While I have no desire to eff a man in his ass, I would be more open-minded doing it to him, than the other way around. If it's something he really wants, I guess I would have no problem doing it.

I'm shocked at all the "NOs" from the women. Hmmmm...I wonder would BabyP be into this sort of thing? She seems like the type.

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Old 03-26-2007, 11:13 AM
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Hmmmm...I wonder would BabyP be into this sort of thing? She seems like the type.
You can't read lips in that position.


Yes...I went there.


And to answer the question - Not "no", but "HELL NO" to both.
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Old 03-26-2007, 11:28 AM
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Old 03-26-2007, 12:36 PM
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And to answer the question - Not "no", but "HELL NO" to both.
Lol, I second that motion.
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Old 03-26-2007, 04:37 PM
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On second thought, I'm conflicted about this.

Part of me really wants to be open minded and think that a man isn't gay just because he wants his bum stimulated by a woman in a strap on.

But the majority of me feels that if your man WILL have that done, then he'd probably let a man do it too. Especially if that man was hot like me.

Luckily, I'm a virgin and don't engage in any of that.
LOL @ rashid's overconfidence.

i can see that. i dont believe for a second that a man would get off thinking about the role-reversal of a woman being the penetrator. i mean, props for a dude to be open enough to ask his woman for such sexual act, but i too would have to wonder if he'd feel the same way if a man was doing it. then again, what's the female equivalent of this scenario? i mean, no one says "oh if a woman wants oral she TOTALLY must have lesbo tendencies!"

this argument seems to be the reverse of the one about getting head from another man - it's not necessarily about the gender about the giving the head, but about the power of being able to command the act from someone you find sexually attractive.
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Old 03-26-2007, 04:42 PM
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then again, what's the female equivalent of this scenario? i mean, no one says "oh if a woman wants oral she TOTALLY must have lesbo tendencies!"
So . . . does liking oral mean that a woman would 'probably' allow a woman to do it too?

Doesn't that inference sound absolutely ridiculous?
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Old 03-26-2007, 04:46 PM
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So . . . does liking oral mean that a woman would 'probably' allow a woman to do it too?

Doesn't that inference sound absolutely ridiculous?
ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"
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Old 03-26-2007, 05:15 PM
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ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"
I'd say not liking vaginal penetration. I'm thinking it's more like what she won't let him do.
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Old 03-26-2007, 05:52 PM
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ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"
Well, that's kinda... not my point.

My point is that, if your best guess is something ridiculous, maybe the original assertion is ridiculous - guys, come on. Liking things in your anus does not make you gay. Sexual attraction to other men makes you gay.

Let's reverse the causation/correlation loop here - if he lets you put a dildo in his rectum, go ahead and wonder if he would allow a dude to nail him in the rectum. However, know that the SECOND part is indicative of homosexuality, not the first - they may very well be related. Just not in the way we've talked about so far.

I would say that if she will let you be a woman while performing oral sex, she's probably a lesbian.

Personally, I have never tried any sort of anal play on myself - it's never really popped into my brain to ask for it, and girl has ever tried on her own volition (which, given my diet, is not surprising). I'm not sure I would be comfortable from a hygiene standpoint, so I'm really not sure I'd ever really know if I enjoyed it either way, so take that for what it's worth.

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Old 03-26-2007, 08:37 PM
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Since we are seem to be having a rather nice open forum here:
How about "air-tight"?
And no, I have never been a position to take part in that particular position and activity.
No doubt I may know one or two people who have at some point.
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Old 03-26-2007, 09:47 PM
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Since we are seem to be having a rather nice open forum here:
How about "air-tight"?
And no, I have never been a position to take part in that particular position and activity.
No doubt I may know one or two people who have at some point.
I think y'all should be required to provide either a wikipedia or urban dictionary defintion with this. I've never heard these terms before, even though I'd heard of the actual act.

So, in short... what's air-tight?
(I'm going to regret asking)
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