Pegging

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by jon1856

But why is it that some women like anal so much?

I don't know many who will admit it, but one of my female friends REALLY does enjoy it, and I can't figure it out either, what with the whole lack of a prostate thing.

And I agree with tld..... I try to tell people it's not so much the anal stimulation that makes someone gay, but the gender of the person doing the stimulating.

[Senusret I]

On second thought, I'm conflicted about this.

Part of me really wants to be open minded and think that a man isn't gay just because he wants his bum stimulated by a woman in a strap on.

But the majority of me feels that if your man WILL have that done, then he'd probably let a man do it too. Especially if that man was hot like me.

Luckily, I'm a virgin and don't engage in any of that.

[Dionysus]

So, do you all think the opposite is true? If a woman has an aversion to penetration, she'd probably just want to stick to women?

It will obviously make her less sexually compatable with men, but I'm not sure her preference would make her significantly less sexually attracted to them...unless they give terrible head, lol.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

On second thought, I'm conflicted about this.

Part of me really wants to be open minded and think that a man isn't gay just because he wants his bum stimulated by a woman in a strap on.

But the majority of me feels that if your man WILL have that done, then he'd probably let a man do it too. Especially if that man was hot like me.

Luckily, I'm a virgin and don't engage in any of that.

LOL @ rashid's overconfidence.

i can see that. i dont believe for a second that a man would get off thinking about the role-reversal of a woman being the penetrator. i mean, props for a dude to be open enough to ask his woman for such sexual act, but i too would have to wonder if he'd feel the same way if a man was doing it. then again, what's the female equivalent of this scenario? i mean, no one says "oh if a woman wants oral she TOTALLY must have lesbo tendencies!"

this argument seems to be the reverse of the one about getting head from another man - it's not necessarily about the gender about the giving the head, but about the power of being able to command the act from someone you find sexually attractive.

[KSig RC]

Originally Posted by tld221

then again, what's the female equivalent of this scenario? i mean, no one says "oh if a woman wants oral she TOTALLY must have lesbo tendencies!"

So . . . does liking oral mean that a woman would 'probably' allow a woman to do it too?

Doesn't that inference sound absolutely ridiculous?

[tld221]

Originally Posted by KSig RC

So . . . does liking oral mean that a woman would 'probably' allow a woman to do it too?

Doesn't that inference sound absolutely ridiculous?

ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"

[Dionysus]

Originally Posted by tld221

ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"

I'd say not liking vaginal penetration. I'm thinking it's more like what she won't let him do.

[KSig RC]

Originally Posted by tld221

ummm thats kinda... my... point.

i was asking, if not that, then what WOULD be the female stereotype of "hey if she will let me do X, maybe she's a lesbian?"

Well, that's kinda... not my point.

My point is that, if your best guess is something ridiculous, maybe the original assertion is ridiculous - guys, come on. Liking things in your anus does not make you gay. Sexual attraction to other men makes you gay.

Let's reverse the causation/correlation loop here - if he lets you put a dildo in his rectum, go ahead and wonder if he would allow a dude to nail him in the rectum. However, know that the SECOND part is indicative of homosexuality, not the first - they may very well be related. Just not in the way we've talked about so far.

I would say that if she will let you be a woman while performing oral sex, she's probably a lesbian.

Personally, I have never tried any sort of anal play on myself - it's never really popped into my brain to ask for it, and girl has ever tried on her own volition (which, given my diet, is not surprising). I'm not sure I would be comfortable from a hygiene standpoint, so I'm really not sure I'd ever really know if I enjoyed it either way, so take that for what it's worth.

[jon1856]

Since we are seem to be having a rather nice open forum here:
How about "air-tight"?
And no, I have never been a position to take part in that particular position and activity.
No doubt I may know one or two people who have at some point.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by KSig RC

Well, that's kinda... not my point.

My point is that, if your best guess is something ridiculous, maybe the original assertion is ridiculous - guys, come on. Liking things in your anus does not make you gay. Sexual attraction to other men makes you gay.

Let's reverse the causation/correlation loop here - if he lets you put a dildo in his rectum, go ahead and wonder if he would allow a dude to nail him in the rectum. However, know that the SECOND part is indicative of homosexuality, not the first - they may very well be related. Just not in the way we've talked about so far.

I definitely agree with you - i totally wasnt trying to pick a fight with you.

Originally Posted by KSig RC

I would say that if she will let you be a woman while performing oral sex, she's probably a lesbian.

are you being facetious by stating the obvious? otherwise, im a lil confused...

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

On second thought, I'm conflicted about this.

Part of me really wants to be open minded and think that a man isn't gay just because he wants his bum stimulated by a woman in a strap on.

But the majority of me feels that if your man WILL have that done, then he'd probably let a man do it too. Especially if that man was hot like me.

Luckily, I'm a virgin and don't engage in any of that.

LMAO @ this entire post

[AlexMack]

Originally Posted by Senusret I

I don't know many who will admit it, but one of my female friends REALLY does enjoy it, and I can't figure it out either, what with the whole lack of a prostate thing.

Supposedly the nerves from the g-spot and the clitoris can all be stimulated through anal because they're far reaching, thus explaining some women's preference for anal.

Also no and no.

[Dionysus]

I guess I will answer my own question.

No and maybe. While I have no desire to eff a man in his ass, I would be more open-minded doing it to him, than the other way around. If it's something he really wants, I guess I would have no problem doing it.

I'm shocked at all the "NOs" from the women. Hmmmm...I wonder would BabyP be into this sort of thing? She seems like the type.

[AlphaFrog]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

Hmmmm...I wonder would BabyP be into this sort of thing? She seems like the type.

You can't read lips in that position.


Yes...I went there.


And to answer the question - Not "no", but "HELL NO" to both.

[RU OX Alum]

no

no