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Old 08-26-2006, 02:28 PM
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uhhhhh, isn't the guy white? and no, i'm not excusing his ignorance. but like i said....you still can't help what you are or are not attracted to.
Ok my bad. I thought he was black. But anyways... I stand by my point, but I also understand yours.
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Old 08-26-2006, 02:31 PM
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Old 08-26-2006, 03:15 PM
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There are some cute Hispanic ladies in sororities, and I've dated them. However, if a guy dated black lady, he would probably be ostracized into quitting. I don't find them oh so attractive anyways so it doesn't really bother me.
Yeah, I know what you mean, because most white guys give me the skeevies.
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Old 08-26-2006, 03:40 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean, because most white guys give me the skeevies.
Exactly.
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Old 08-26-2006, 05:46 PM
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I'm white and I'm in an Asian American Fraternity.

I see a LOT of Asian girls dating white guys, but rarely do I come across a white girl with an Asian guy. Usually the guy is pretty whitewashed too.

As for me, I've dated Black and Asian basically.

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Old 08-26-2006, 05:53 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean, because most white guys give me the skeevies.


That is a shame

Isnt it in the eye of the beholder?

Yes I have dated many Women of Color, so is that that wrong!

I have found them interesting in may diferent ways, not Color!

Some of You seem so self Important that it is under Whelming!
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Old 08-26-2006, 05:58 PM
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I'm white and I'm in an Asian American Fraternity.

I see a LOT of Asian girls dating white guys, but rarely do I come across a white girl with an Asian guy. Usually the guy is pretty whitewashed too.

As for me, I've dated Black and Asian basically.

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My lil sis, who is white as white can be (Polish... blonde hair, blue eyes) dated a guy who was half Chinese/half Polish. He looks way more on the Asian side.
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Old 08-26-2006, 06:15 PM
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The deal with the white guys dating asian girls but asian guys not dating white girls, I believe, is that asian girls tend to fit the American view of the perfect girl, because they are usually small girls and so on. However, asian guys tend to be small as well and their hair isn't able to fit the Caucasian style of wearing it usually unlike the girls, which is not the typical American view. No offense to the asian guys on here, because it's not always a hard standard, obviously.
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Old 08-26-2006, 06:47 PM
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I'm white and I'm in an Asian American Fraternity.

I see a LOT of Asian girls dating white guys, but rarely do I come across a white girl with an Asian guy. Usually the guy is pretty whitewashed too.

As for me, I've dated Black and Asian basically.

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I have a white friend who, on a regular basis, makes me cringe by proclaiming her "Yellow Fever." This girl is in seminary to be a pastor and says she's called to Asian culture in general so it does make some sense to me. She was drawn to an Asian ministry before she discovered her affinity for Asian men, so I suppose spending so much time with Asian men, she began to feel more and more comfortable, thus leading to her desire for an Asian husband.

On the topic, next Friday, I will marry a black Omega Psi Phi. I'm white and Greek (obviously).
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Old 08-26-2006, 08:54 PM
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I personally don't really notice who dates whom, but my cousin, who is from NYC, commented on how she's seen many Asian guys date white girls up here in Toronto.

p.s. should this thread be moved to the dating board?
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but like i said....you still can't help what you are or are not attracted to.
Amen to that.

All the guys I've dated have been outside my race. I've only dated one Asian (but the only thing Asian about him was his last name and the fact that he was only 1/8th of it) and don't find most of them attractive.
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Old 08-26-2006, 09:45 PM
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I have a white friend who, on a regular basis, makes me cringe by proclaiming her "Yellow Fever." This girl is in seminary to be a pastor and says she's called to Asian culture in general so it does make some sense to me. She was drawn to an Asian ministry before she discovered her affinity for Asian men, so I suppose spending so much time with Asian men, she began to feel more and more comfortable, thus leading to her desire for an Asian husband.

On the topic, next Friday, I will marry a black Omega Psi Phi. I'm white and Greek (obviously).
hijack - jeni, youre getting married?! when'd this happen?
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Old 08-26-2006, 10:13 PM
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That is a shame

Isnt it in the eye of the beholder?

Yes I have dated many Women of Color, so is that that wrong!

I have found them interesting in may diferent ways, not Color!

Some of You seem so self Important that it is under Whelming!
Gotta love the Earp Man.

Do you know what 'mulatto' is?

Umm, I AM part white!

Sarcasm - do you know it when you see it?

I'm attempting to speak Earpish for you. Therefore you might understand.
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Old 08-26-2006, 10:17 PM
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Gotta love the Earp Man.

Do you know what 'mulatto' is?

Umm, I AM part white!

Sarcasm - do you know it when you see it?

I'm attempting to speak Earpish for you. Therefore you might understand.
Um...LMAO!!!
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Old 08-27-2006, 12:40 AM
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Amen to that.

All the guys I've dated have been outside my race. I've only dated one Asian (but the only thing Asian about him was his last name and the fact that he was only 1/8th of it) and don't find most of them attractive.
particularly in the asian community, that has nothing to do with personal attraction.
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