Everyone is an individual. Because of that, family should be able to withstand that type of situation. Tradition aside, ultimately it does not matter since we ALL should be in this to better our community and ourselves.
Having said that, my younger brother and I were LB's on tha same Kappa Line and would not dare come home as anything else but a Mighty NUPE !!
Pops would have a fit !!! He is an old school Kappa from the 70's and would straight trip!!