Longest Relationship?

[AEPhiSierra]

1 year, 2 weeks - we grew apart for reasons i still don't completely understand. no big brawl or anything and we're still friends.

[XOMichelle]

2 years: Sophomore - Senior Year in college. We had a long realtionship, and are still friendly. D and I broke up because he graduated and was going thorough a hard time I couldn't understand. Sometimes I feel he is going through a hard time I still dont' understand, but I wish him the very best and know if I can ever help him out, I will.

2 years off and on: High school/ freshman year in college boyfriend. We broke up at the begining of my sophomore year in college because we wanted to meet other people, and lived 2,000 miles away from eachother. He is now married, I think.

1.5 years (also off and on): 32 year old boy with 3 year old daughter. We broke up because after 1.5 years, we were not in love, and he wanted to go date women he could possibly marry in the next 2-5 years. I do not want marriage for another 7-10, so we weren't on the same life-page. Athough you might have been able to figure that out since he is 8 years older! Whenever we see eachother I can't help thinking, "If only he was 5 years younger...."

right now I am supersingle! It's fun

[Corsulian]

Longest relationship: 2 years
Best Relationship: 3 1/2 days

[PlymouthDZ]

my longest - 4 years and 364 days (5 years tomorrow!)

before that 1 year

[Wine&SilverBlue]

2 years and ahem.. 2 weeks.. and still going
*started beginning of freshman year of college

3 months (junior year of HS) ... I just stopped liking him as more than a friend (after 2 months, the last month was me getting up the courage to end things)

all others under 3 months lol.. guess i lucked out w/ my current bf

Here are my longest relationships:

1 year - we were too young, so really it didn't even wind up being a whole year. (And when I say too young, I'm talking 15 yrs. old)

1 year/ 3 months - May'98 - Aug. '99 Just gettin out of high school in '98. The reason it ended was because it was a long distance relationship and though I really thought it would work out, I had to end it. I just couldn't take not being able to see him any longer.

4 years/ 4 months - October '99 - Feb. 2004; first of all, we were off and on during that time. He couldn't make up his mind, so I finally had to let him loose (especially after admitting to me that he a girl pregnant!! I think that would be an exit mark for anyone out there! At least I could only hope so.)

[ZTAngel]

3.5 years: My current relationship. He's put up with my brattiness and princess-attitude but still loves me. We've gone through a lot in the past year (his dad passing away and him just recently moving to Atlanta to pursue his PhD) but we're still going strong. What a mighty good man.

1 year: High school sweetheart. This ended right when we came to college because he started smoking 8 bowls a day (or more) and didn't bother to go to class. I joined a sorority and met hot fraternity boys that treated me better than my boyfriend so I dumped him. Best decision I ever made.

3 months: heh-heh...I was infamous for short-term relationships in high school. This one was with a college boy while I was a junior in high school. I thought I was the shit for dating a college guy while in HS but now that I look back, I think it kinda makes him a loser that he went to college, couldn't find anyone his own age, and then decided to pick up a girl who still had over a year left in high school. He cheated on me with another girl from my high school. I was devastated. Then, he flunked out of school and now works as a cashier at Costco. I win.

[Munchkin03]

4.5 years
1 year
9 months

[CUGreekgirl]

None of my relationships have lasted longer than a month. With the one that lasted exactly a month, we were together constantly which was way too much for a relationship just starting off. During that month I spent the night over at his place at least 10 nights if not more.

Its something about the 1 mnth mark that weirds me out and I pretty much self destruct the relationship. Yesterday would have been one month with my "hookup guy" (we just hookup constantly, and aren't seeing other people but he doesn't want committment) but I haven't heard from him since Monday night, so I guess I can't even last more than a month with just a hookup guy.

[Sister Havana]

Longest relationship: Five and a half years. Lord knows how we made it so long. We broke up because of irreconcilable differences. (cliche I know but it's true!)

Every other one I had only lasted a few months at most.

[Shima-Mizu]

Longest Relationship: 10 months and still going strong! Current boyfriend, most likely the one I'll be sticking with... we've got plans....

2nd longest: 7 1/2 months. I started dating this jerk my senior year of high school, he didn't like talking long distance when I left for college, so it was doomed from the start.

3rd longest: 6 months break up, and then another month later. First boyfriend I'd ever had. He was such a dork, it was just like having a best friend to call a boyfriend. We didn't even kiss.

[MrsMcCartney]

The one I am in right now!!!!!!!!!! It will be 12 years on Halloween! Tomorrow is our 10th wedding anniversary!!!!!!! Ten years........

Boy does that freak me out.

~Two years too long with my ex

Currently going on two and a half

[ladyj39]

My current relationship is my longest. We've been together for 4 years and 4 months. Still going strong!

Before that, my longest was 3.5 years. He was ready to get married and I wasn't. Plus, I started seeing him more as a best friend and not a boyfriend. The romance just died for me.

[sororitygirl2]

4 years in college, ended because it had gone on longer than it should have to begin with and the distance got to be too much of a challenge.