I have to get this off my chest....

[hottytoddy]

Originally posted by DGqueen17
Well his roommate did walk around naked a lot. And he said sometimes they sleep in the same bed. Weird.

OK you didn't tell me this. No. If I were talking to him and he told me this. It would be the last time i talked to him. I thought guys were really weird about sleeping in the same bed.

[James]

We are not wierd about it. We just don't much do it. Girls are wierd about it. You get in bed with eachother for comfort and cuddle. That would be anathema to a masculine men.

Hey kitso, I'm a little down. Maybe i can stay at your place tonight so i won't be alone? Maybe sleep in bed with you and you can stroke my hair?

--361 reasons THAT won't be happening

Originally posted by hottytoddy
OK you didn't tell me this. No. If I were talking to him and he told me this. It would be the last time i talked to him. I thought guys were really weird about sleeping in the same bed.

[James]

I think Val's right on this one. Unless A guy clearly says, our relationship is totallty exclusive and we both agree that we are not going to see anyone else . . well its not excusive.

And watch for us to use small avoidance phrases such as: "I don't want to see anyone else right now;" I am not seeing anyone else right now;" I can't imagine seeing anyone else right now . . etc.

In that context, now, means the 5 seconds it takes to say that phrase.

And love has little to do with fidelity when the opportunity is presented cfree and clear.

I know it sound awful but its true.

Why did he confess this stuff to you anyway? What a moron.

Originally posted by valkyrie
It's understandable that you're sad -- I'm sorry to hear that he hurt you.

But...did you ever have a discussion about being exclusive? I think that unless two people come to an agreement that they will be exclusive and not date/sleep with anyone else, both people are free to do what they want. Of course, if you did have the discussion, he's an ass and you should run far, far away from him and not give him a second thought, and if you're morally bothered by him sleeping with other people than it's to be expected that you'd be upset by what he did.

Did he confess his love to you after mere flirting? You mention that you knew him before and then you flirted and then he said he was in love with you. If there's not more to it than that, he sounds like a little boy who mistakes love with something else, and in that situation too you're better off without him.

It sucks that relationship-type things can be so difficult, but if it makes you feel any better, all that suckiness means that someday when you find someone perfect for you, you will really, REALLY appreciate it.

[DGqueen17]

He just fed me a lot of bullshit and I believed it. Here are a few of the things I heard:

"You are so perfect for me, I don't deserve you." (OBVIOUSLY)

"I hope that I marry you." (Right.)

"I never thought I would feel this way again after _______ broke my heart." (Hmmm that was in high school?)

"I hope you never cheat on me because I would die if you did." (Ummm WTF?)

Then...after he went psycho...

"I'll have all the AxiD's kick your ass." (Right cause I'm not friends with most of them or anything.)

"You will never be allowed to set foot in the Phi Psi house again. (Cause they are gonna turn away a cute girl for someone who isn't a brother uh huh)

"I will ruin your life." (Right sweetie.....who's uncle is the congressman that got your retarded ass into the Academy? That's what I thought.)

And my personal favorite....

"I passed up the chance to be with a girl I've been in love with for years to be with you." (Well let me tell you she is one lucky girl to get to be with a winner like you.)

God damn I feel better. Where's that kid's number.

Originally posted by James
We are not wierd about it. We just don't much do it. Girls are wierd about it. You get in bed with eachother for comfort and cuddle. That would be anathema to a masculine men.

Hey kitso, I'm a little down. Maybe i can stay at your place tonight so i won't be alone? Maybe sleep in bed with you and you can stroke my hair?

--361 reasons THAT won't be happening

Well dude,

I mean, if you bring some ice cream, and your favorite sappy movies, we could do each others hair......

NO!! I MEAN NO!! HELL NO!!!!!

Seriously, most guys have personal space issues. It's why when you go to the movies with a buddy, you've got the straight seat in between you.

I have often chosen to sleep on the floor instead of sharing a bed with another man. Call me petty or whatever, but there's certain boundaries you don't cross.

Kitso
KS 361

[DGqueen17]

I found it somewhat odd that they would sleep in the same twin bed as well. But then again I do have a slight history of turning guys gay.

I think that I must suck at life.

[DGqueen17]

Originally posted by BobbyTheDon
quit goin for homos DGQUeen17

I know right. WTF. The gays love me.

Originally posted by DGqueen17
I know right. WTF. The gays love me.

maybe if you didn't hang out in so many gay bars?



Kitso
KS 361

[hottytoddy]

Originally posted by DGqueen17
I know right. WTF. The gays love me.

It's because you're so fabulous!

Also my friend dated this guy once and he was a cheerleader-which some people think it wierd but I don't. And there was this old BILLIONAIRE man that he used to do odd jobs for...like take him to the grocery, mow his lawn, wash his cars...stuff like that. I'm talkin he was old! He also let him drive his cars which included a Lambourghini(sp?), a Rolls Royce, etc. Anyhow a year or so after he dated my friend...the man died and left him EVERYTHING!!!!! He's now a billionaire...after becoming a billionaire he came out of the closet.

[PsychTau]

Originally posted by AggieSigmaNu361
Regardless, i had a roommate that liked to walk around naked. He got a big kick out of surprising the rest of us by walking into the living room and plopping down next to us on the coach, naked as can be.

Kitso
KS 361

Ummmm.....did he plop down on the COACH or the COUCH?



PsychTau
--361 ways that visual really bothered me.....

[valkyrie]

Originally posted by PsychTau
Ummmm.....did he plop down on the COACH or the COUCH?



PsychTau
--361 ways that visual really bothered me.....

LOL, maybe he had a really large handbag.

[Rudey]

Originally posted by AggieSigmaNu361
So are you implying that the "pitcher" is less gay than the "catcher"?

Regardless, i had a roommate that liked to walk around naked. He got a big kick out of surprising the rest of us by walking into the living room and plopping down next to us on the coach, naked as can be.

But we never shared a bed.

I think the "i've had sex with lots of girls" is a cover up for "me and my bunkmate are just SOOOO close"

Kitso
KS 361

You know what? When I drink and I'm around a lot of guys, somehow urination or public nudity always happens (including dropping your sack on them when they're not paying attention). It's harmless fun. One time I remember my buddy walking out naked in the middle of a party and peeing into a pitcher. Another buddy dumped the pitcher on him. Fun times.

-Rudey
--And none of that was gay by the way...I'm just saying ok?

Originally posted by Rudey
You know what? When I drink and I'm around a lot of guys, somehow urination or public nudity always happens (including dropping your sack on them when they're not paying attention). It's harmless fun. One time I remember my buddy walking out naked in the middle of a party and peeing into a pitcher. Another buddy dumped the pitcher on him. Fun times.

-Rudey
--And none of that was gay by the way...I'm just saying ok?

I'll agree.

Drunk FRAPings were always humorous to watch. As well as brothers 'borrowing' the thongs of girls who threw parties at their houses and running around in them. One naked guy around 10 other people IS funny, it's a spectacle.

One naked guy around one other naked guy not in the act of getting dressed is creepy.

and he would plop down on the couch. My typing sucks sometimes

Kitso
KS 361

[starang21]

wow...a month or so? kinda quick to even talk about the L-word. was he your boyfriend?

[DGqueen17]

Originally posted by starang21
wow...a month or so? kinda quick to even talk about the L-word. was he your boyfriend?

I know it was fast. But it's so last week. I'm pretty much over it. Thanks guys He's beat.