Sorors and Sisterfriends,
I was a little disturbed about this situation that was just revealed to me and wanted to get your input.
A guy friend of mine just revealed that he used to date a woman that is now married to a man who is apparently homosexual and he refuses to tell her about her man's past indiscretions.
How does he know? Well, he has a homosexual friend who, upon finding out who this women was marrying, remarked that he had ahem, had relations with this man almost a year prior to the wedding date.
I asked the guy that I know why he wouldn't at least try to anonymously make this woman aware of who her husband is and he replied that they had broken up on bad terms and he didn't want to get involved.
With all this talk about men on the DL and the spread of HIV/AIDS, I am very disturbed that he *knows* that her husband is on the DL but will not reveal this to her any kind of way. I just can't help but worry that she may be one of countless women who contract a life-threatening disease b/c he "didn't want to get involved."
If I knew her, I'd tell her (even if I had to do so anonymously but she's in another state and I don't know her - I barely know him).
What do you think? What would you do?
SC
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