Top NON-physical traits you look for

[ThetaPrincess24]

I cant just put three...........

1) Intelligent
2) Romantic
3) Honest
4) Trustworthy
5) NO Drugs/Smoking/Chew
6) Good Sense of Humor
7) Preferably Catholic
8) Compassionate
9) Understanding
10) Respectful
11) College Educated/Degree Seeking
12) Preferably Greek
13) Same Interests (Sports, Outdoors, Sports, Movies, Music, Sports, Fine Arts/Cultural, Traveling, Sports, Likes Children(because I want kids one day) and Animals(because I have a cat and dog), and did I mention Sports? )
14) Variety in the bedroom (not the same thing every damn time!)

And yes, I look for ALL of these qualities in addition to looks before I consider dating someone for the long term/seriously.

[bethany1982]

1. Intelligence
2. Sensitivity
3. Stability

[The1calledTKE]

Yep 2 degrees from that dinky school Valdosta State. That says it all. Too bad we all couldn't get in to Harvard.

[AlphaGam1019]

Originally posted by ThetaPrincess24
I cant just put three...........

heh reminds me of something off of nomarriage.com :

[list=1][*]5'8” and taller [*]Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes [*]Handsome [*]Muscular [*]Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat [*]Good sense of humor [*]Dimples [*]Cute laugh [*]Sensitive [*]*Affectionate* in front of friends [*]Gives me lots of attention [*]Outgoing [*]Popular but doesn't know the whole state [*]Friends with my friends [*]Nice smile [*]Straight teeth [*]No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms) [*]Pierced ear(s) if any [*]Not too many tattoos if any [*]Likes to cuddle [*]Likes to party [*]Takes me out [*]Grabs my hand to hold [*]Kisses me unexpectedly [*]Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe [*]Has a good job [*]Tells me he misses me when we're not together [*]Makes me laugh [*]Open minded [*]Polite [*]Holds doors for me [*]Opens car doors [*]*Romantic* [*]Likes all type of music [*]Likes going to the movies [*]Talks to his friends about me [*]Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed [*]Gives massages without me having to ask [*]Plays with my hair [*]Calls me to just say hi [*]Tries not to argue [*]Apologizes for when he does wrong [*]Says what he's feeling [*]Has a car [*]Has a dog [*]Has a family that likes me [*]Compliments me [*]Is tan [*]Doesn't curse all the time [*]Wants to be with me as much as possible [*]Comes over unexpectedly [*]Wakes me up with a kiss [*]Same age or 3 years at the most older than me [*]*Trustworthy* [*]Patient [*]Likes to shop [*]Has good manners [*]Doesn't smoke [*]Occasionally drinks [*]Athletic [*]Is on time for dates [*]Calls back later when he says he will [*]Lives close to me [*]Wants to meet my family [*]Treats me like a princess [*]Has a cute butt [*]Good kissable lips [*]Good kisser [*]Good memory [*]Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc [*]Intelligent [*]Has direction [*]Creative [*]Likes everything about me [*]Committed [*]*My best friend* [*]Respectful [*]Mature [*]Persistent – Hard working [*]Likes walks on the beach [*]Likes just staying home sometimes [*]Writes me songs/poems [*]Likes to dance [*]Has a sexy voice [*]Cooks for me [*]Likes to show me off [*]Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel" [*]Likes to take pictures [*]Flirts with me in public and in private [*]Puts up with my mood swings [*]Comforts me when I'm sad [*]Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed [*]Sticks up for me [*]Likes animals [*]Sends me flowers for no reason [*]Ignores my imperfections [*]Surprises me (good surprises) [*]Doesn't ever yell at me [*]Likes picnics [*]Likes to clean [*]First to say I Love You [*]Listens to me [*]Smells good [*]*Doesn't lie* [*]Likes kids [*]Makes me the center of his world [*]Not in trouble with the law [*]Isn't a goody-goody [*]Doesn't stare at other girls [*]Doesn't talk to other girls more than me [*]Doodles our names on paper [*]Likes to draw [*]Leaves notes on my car [*]Let's me go out with him and his friends [*]Will hang out with me and my friends [*]Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet [*]Gets jealous but not too jealous [*]Dependable [*]Doesn't hang up on me [*]Calls me babe, sweetie, etc [*]Calls me cute pet names [*]Isn't conceited [*]Isn't a penny-pincher [*]Likes sports and going to sports events [*]Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win [*]Doesn't play mind games [*]Doesn't just think about sex [*]Cares about world issues [*]Doesn't make me cry [*]Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone [*]Isn't shy [*]Has hopes, dreams, and wishes [*]Not opinionated [*]Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them [*]Can spell [/list=1]

[AlphaGam1019]

Originally posted by The1calledTKE
Yep 2 degrees from that dinky school Valdosta State. That says it all. Too bad we all couldn't get in to Harvard.

nah, it's more like...spell check please.

[cashmoney]

Some people just don't understand what TOP 3 means!!!!




1. Humor equaled to that of mine
2. Intelligence
3. Compassion

[absolutuscchick]

Ok, I think I have more than three outside of looks (though I definitely have set standards for that one lol). Anyways, here goes....

(1) Intelligence...I need to be able to carry on an intelligent conversation or else I am so not interested...

(2) Appreciates my sense of humor and can match my sarcasm and randomness, also has to have a sense of humor of his own

(3) Respects me as a woman and is therefore considerate of me and extremely loyal

(4) Good strong moral values

(5) Ambitious...either has a good white collar job that makes money, or is on his way (ie studying hard in school, interning...)

(6) Has passion...what I mean is he has to have something that he is passionate about, in any aspect of life

(7) Knows how to treat a woman right, is a gentleman (opens the doors, pulls out my chair for me, is polite, etc...)

---Yes I understand what top 3 are but I definitely can't choose!!

[desirethegreat1]

Originally posted by Dionysus
What are the top 3 non-physical traits you look for in a guy/girl?

Mine are:

1. Humble
2. Humorous
3. Extroverted

Since you only asked for THREE
1.
HONEST

2.Humerous
3.Great Manners

[Hootie]

1) Intelligent - doesn't have to be a genius, but has to have book and street smarts Along with intelligence comes the way they handle themselves. I don't like a dumb jock or a cocky business man.

2) Funny - someone who doesn't take things too seriously (yet knows when to be serious) and can laugh at themselves.

3) Honest/Trustworthy - there is nothing worse than a liar because liars are always caught. And along with the honesty, comes the trust because if you can't be honest, how can you be trusted?

[AXJules]

Look, I'ma number mine
1) makes me laugh constantly
2) treats everyone with respect, kindness, and courtesy (in a word, has manners)
3) is honest

[PhiPsiRuss]

1. Chef in the kitchen
2. Lady in the streets
3. Whore in bed

[PhiPsiRuss]

Originally posted by AlphaGam1019
5'8” and taller
2. Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
3. Handsome
4. Muscular
5. Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
6. Good sense of humor
7. Dimples
8. Cute laugh
9. Sensitive
10. *Affectionate* in front of friends
11. Gives me lots of attention
12. Outgoing
13. Popular but doesn't know the whole state
14. Friends with my friends
15. Nice smile
16. Straight teeth
17. No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
18. Pierced ear(s) if any
19. Not too many tattoos if any
20. Likes to cuddle
21. Likes to party
22. Takes me out
23. Grabs my hand to hold
24. Kisses me unexpectedly
25. Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
26. Has a good job
27. Tells me he misses me when we're not together
28. Makes me laugh
29. Open minded
30. Polite
31. Holds doors for me
32. Opens car doors
33. *Romantic*
34. Likes all type of music
35. Likes going to the movies
36. Talks to his friends about me
37. Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
38. Gives massages without me having to ask
39. Plays with my hair
40. Calls me to just say hi
41. Tries not to argue
42. Apologizes for when he does wrong
43. Says what he's feeling
44. Has a car
45. Has a dog
46. Has a family that likes me
47. Compliments me
48. Is tan
49. Doesn't curse all the time
50. Wants to be with me as much as possible
51. Comes over unexpectedly
52. Wakes me up with a kiss
53. Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
54. *Trustworthy*
55. Patient
56. Likes to shop
57. Has good manners
58. Doesn't smoke
59. Occasionally drinks
60. Athletic
61. Is on time for dates
62. Calls back later when he says he will
63. Lives close to me
64. Wants to meet my family
65. Treats me like a princess
66. Has a cute butt
67. Good kissable lips
68. Good kisser
69. Good memory
70. Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
71. Intelligent
72. Has direction
73. Creative
74. Likes everything about me
75. Committed
76. *My best friend*
77. Respectful
78. Mature
79. Persistent – Hard working
80. Likes walks on the beach
81. Likes just staying home sometimes
82. Writes me songs/poems
83. Likes to dance
84. Has a sexy voice
85. Cooks for me
86. Likes to show me off
87. Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
88. Likes to take pictures
89. Flirts with me in public and in private
90. Puts up with my mood swings
91. Comforts me when I'm sad
92. Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
93. Sticks up for me
94. Likes animals
95. Sends me flowers for no reason
96. Ignores my imperfections
97. Surprises me (good surprises)
98. Doesn't ever yell at me
99. Likes picnics
100. Likes to clean
101. First to say I Love You
102. Listens to me
103. Smells good
104. *Doesn't lie*
105. Likes kids
106. Makes me the center of his world
107. Not in trouble with the law
108. Isn't a goody-goody
109. Doesn't stare at other girls
110. Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
111. Doodles our names on paper
112. Likes to draw
113. Leaves notes on my car
114. Let's me go out with him and his friends
115. Will hang out with me and my friends
116. Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
117. Gets jealous but not too jealous
118. Dependable
119. Doesn't hang up on me
120. Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
121. Calls me cute pet names
122. Isn't conceited
123. Isn't a penny-pincher
124. Likes sports and going to sports events
125. Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
126. Doesn't play mind games
127. Doesn't just think about sex
128. Cares about world issues
129. Doesn't make me cry
130. Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
131. Isn't shy
132. Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
133. Not opinionated
134. Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
135. Can spell

Have you always wanted to marry a gay man?

[valkyrie]

1) Honest
2) Similar ideals (for me this means vegerarian, non-religious, liberal, non-kid-wanting)
3) Fun

[smiley21]

Originally posted by AlphaGam1019
I love it when people can follow directions.

i cant narrow it down to three. so back off sister

[Jill1228]

Intelligence
Sense of humor
Ambition
A Gentleman