Help, Advice Anyone - Page 2

DEvynSince84 · #16 07-27-2003, 10:52 AM

I have to strongly DISagree with apologizing to him. I honestly do not belive that you did anything wrong. I'm picking up a bit of jealousy on his part and insecurity. Even thoughh you two are not together, it is obvious you have a relationship, in which he got mad over you hugging someone else even though your intentions were to come see him? In my opinion, that is very childish and close minded on his part. I respect you twice as much because you handled it like a woman. You told him he was OUT OF LINE for insulting you like that and adviced him not to do it again. Then you left. I believe it is up to him now to BE A MAN, and a respectful human being, not only to a WOMAN WHOM HE INSULTED, but to a child-hood friend, and apologize whether or not it leads to his true feelings being revealed.

I HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER...

sleepy · #17 07-27-2003, 10:04 PM

I have good news I stuck with with what I firmly believe in and he ended up calling me. He apologize and admits that it bothers him when another dude is in place I said when then why won't you be with me he told me because he won't be faithful and we go to far back I said I respect that and thank you for respecting me but when you are ready I can't promise I will always be there he said he understood but I told him I will never stop being his friend. Now everybody is happy thank you to those that had something good to say and to those that didn't no love loss.

DEvynSince84 · #18 07-28-2003, 10:49 AM

Thats Grrreeeeaaaaatttt! (LOL, don't I sound like Tony the tiger?) I am so happy for you two. See, I told you he needed to come around and he did. Good Luck, with any future relationship that may conjure up between you two.

lovesupreme08 · #19 03-01-2004, 09:19 AM

Greetings Sorors and SFs,

I need a little advice. I am a member of this book club that met for the first time about three weeks ago. Well there are about three guys in the club and one is a serious cutie! We have a group list and I want to know if you think it is appropriate to ask this guy's friend(female) for more information about him i.e. is he seeing someone, would he be interested in chatting, etc. Now the girl i would be asking is a good friend of one of my good friends. Basically I dont really know her. Or do you think I should just shoot the brother an email and see what happens? Any advice would be helpful!

Peace,

Soror Erika