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Old 04-15-2003, 04:07 PM
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Okay, I'll admit that I'm the holder of the V-Card. I just haven't found that special someone.
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Old 04-15-2003, 07:57 PM
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I'm still holding the card...and I'm also glad to see that I'm not alone. I know a lot of people who feel "too old to be in the Club" and just kind of turned in their membership to anyone who was convenient. It seems kind of sad to me, but I was starting to think that maybe I was crazy for thinking so. I mean, whatever floats your boat, I'm not one to judge, but I tend to think that sex without love would be kind of depressing in the end, and if you've already waited 20-some years for the right time, why not wait a little longer instead of just giving up to get it out of the way? I don't know.
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Old 04-16-2003, 03:49 PM
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Are there any guy virgins? (If any of the previous posters are indeed male, I apologize!!!) And yeah you can admit it. I'd salute a guy who had the ability to stay a virgin, more so if he did it for religious reasons or personal conviction. So what's the deal boys??
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Old 04-16-2003, 08:34 PM
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Well, I'm not a card-holder, I was until I became legal and met TKE209 (...and that's even after a 3 yr relationship beforehand).

...this reminded me of what I seen the other day. I went to the health dept to get some stuff and this young little girl (she wasn't more than 14) and she was getting a pregnancy test. *oyes* ..here..last year a 9 year gave birth to a baby...
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Old 04-16-2003, 09:22 PM
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A) I didn't know that it was possible for a 9 year old to conceive
B) Who the #$%@ had sex with a 9 year old?
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Old 04-16-2003, 09:42 PM
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Are there any guy virgins? (If any of the previous posters are indeed male, I apologize!!!) And yeah you can admit it. I'd salute a guy who had the ability to stay a virgin, more so if he did it for religious reasons or personal conviction. So what's the deal boys??
OK, I'll bite... More for personal convictions than anything else. Guess an old-fashioned upbringing may be part of it, but I certainly don't believe in expecting to get laid on the first date, nor do I let raging male hormones govern where to spread my pollen. Eventually I'll find the woman who can share my life and my love for her; if I've waited long enough for her so far, I guess a few more years ain't gonna hurt.
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Old 04-16-2003, 10:03 PM
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As promised....I SALUTE YOU!
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Old 04-16-2003, 10:37 PM
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A) I didn't know that it was possible for a 9 year old to conceive
B) Who the #$%@ had sex with a 9 year old?
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A) When you start your period you can concieve.

B) Umm....it was her uncle. You may now curse society.

*source: My sister is an RN in the ObGYN clinic.
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Old 04-16-2003, 10:46 PM
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My husband and I were both virgins when we married. We are proud of it. It wasn't easy among all the wild sleeping around of the sixties and seventies.

I'm so happy that so many of you hold the V-card!

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Old 04-16-2003, 11:04 PM
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B) Umm....it was her uncle. You may now curse society.
well...ain't that some isht.........good grief

and as for all the virgins on here, honestly, way to go, guys. i was hard-core virgin queen in high school....but then i got to college, and the first guy i dated out here shadily pressured me into the act. regrets are pointless, but i wish things had happened differently, i guess. -sigh- ah well....but kudos to you all. may you find true love and happiness in your partner!!!!
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Old 04-17-2003, 01:44 AM
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I really admire all of you "V-card" holders.
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Old 04-17-2003, 02:29 AM
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I'm not now a v-card holder but I do have to say I was a proud V-card holder until I was 32. Part was religious convictions and an even bigger part was i was in high school right when AIDS was hitting the nation in the 80's. i had friends die from AIDS and didn't even want to chance it so decided to wait.

At 32 I had been dating the guy for 3 years and we just kind of got into the moment. We are in love so I don't have regrets about it. He is still my only one and hopefully will only ever be my only one.

Everyone of you V-Card holders out there, stand up proudly and say that you are. I applaud all of you.
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Old 04-17-2003, 09:27 AM
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raises hand.

Not really for lack of opportunity but it just hasn't felt right yet.
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Old 04-17-2003, 09:41 AM
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I'm not now a v-card holder but I do have to say I was a proud V-card holder until I was 32. Part was religious convictions and an even bigger part was i was in high school right when AIDS was hitting the nation in the 80's. i had friends die from AIDS and didn't even want to chance it so decided to wait.

At 32 I had been dating the guy for 3 years and we just kind of got into the moment. We are in love so I don't have regrets about it. He is still my only one and hopefully will only ever be my only one.

Everyone of you V-Card holders out there, stand up proudly and say that you are. I applaud all of you.
You are my new personal idol and saint! Purely b/c I think I feel the same way. I always knew I never wanted many partners, and really only want one or two AT THE MOST!

So friggin cool you are!!!
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Old 04-17-2003, 10:07 AM
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