Cosmo lies!?!?!

[valkyrie]

Originally posted by James
Neither is probably true. He's just not that into you. That is what makes you not GF material.

Exactly!! Isn't it true (she said, going into lawyer mode) that most (not all) guys, when faced with the possibility of sex, will do it? A guy might like some of the women he has one nighters with, and not like some others. I don't think that sex alone would be the reason he wouldn't call -- it's just that he will only call the ones he likes enough to see again. He can always pretend that he's not calling a woman because she's "slutty" but that's not the case at all is it? If he liked her, I don't think he'd discount her because of that.

And I don't even want to go into how much it pisses me off when people start calling women slutty. If you want to have sex, be careful and have fun! What's the point of judging someone? To hold women and men to different standards is ridiculous.

And for the record, I think Cosmo is really stupid.

[sugar and spice]

Originally posted by valkyrie


Exactly!! Isn't it true (she said, going into lawyer mode) that most (not all) guys, when faced with the possibility of sex, will do it? A guy might like some of the women he has one nighters with, and not like some others. I don't think that sex alone would be the reason he wouldn't call -- it's just that he will only call the ones he likes enough to see again. He can always pretend that he's not calling a woman because she's "slutty" but that's not the case at all is it? If he liked her, I don't think he'd discount her because of that.

And I don't even want to go into how much it pisses me off when people start calling women slutty. If you want to have sex, be careful and have fun! What's the point of judging someone? To hold women and men to different standards is ridiculous.

And for the record, I think Cosmo is really stupid.

AMEN.

[James]

Originally posted by valkyrie



And for the record, I think Cosmo is really stupid.

Woooaaah girl! Are you the people that told me to get cosmo for sex Tips on what women like?

(James contemplates sending back all the back issues he ordered)

I had been relying on Maaxim . . .

[James]

Amycat and Valkyrie are very right . . .

Also, keep in mind, people don't understand the fundamental dishonesty of Games . . .

A lot of the purpose of Games is to build a lot of feeling when there isn't much of a genuine connection.

So the "head game" is to make the other person focus a large part of their thoughts on you. The more they think about you the more you grow in importance.

I am not saying flirtiness and all that isn't good . . . but some of the game playing is pretty counterproductive.

Plus a lot of times you have to keep the games going in the relationship in order maintain any feeling.

Hence a lot of the bickering and arguments . . its another part of game play. Or keeping yourself in someones "head".

[SSS1365]

Reading everyone else's responses, I don't think there is any one right answer. I personally do not know many guys who wish to pursue relationships with women who give it up right away. But from what you all are saying, maybe some guys do. I don't think it's necessarily the wisest choice to have sex as soon as you meet someone, but I'm not saying anyone should be a total prude either. Everyone has the right to make their own decisions... they just have to be willing to face the consequences!