Do I Have A Flashing Neon Sign That Says Freaks Only Over My Head - Page 2

aggieAXO · #16 05-23-2002, 03:44 AM

Be careful Life this me be one of Al Quedas tactics to kill off cute, young single men

. Maybe she was giving you a hint as to what you tasted as you swabed her tonsils.

Anyways, Amy I soooooo feel your pain. I don't even bother going out to bars that much anymore, I prefer to hang out with my circle of friends at someones house. I give up!!!

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Originally posted by lifesaver
So you remember me (in the "one time at band camp" voice) and remember that I am a biology major, I wrote the word 'bacteria' under my name." Who does that? BACTERIA??? What, like I wass hopeing her initials were STD as well? She might as well have said, "my name is Clarissa, but my friends call me Clap for short." WTF? SERIOUSLY, WHO USES BACTERIA AS A COME ON????

amycat412 · #17 05-23-2002, 07:31 PM

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Originally posted by aggieAXO
I give up!!!

Me too aggieAXO, me too. Sigh.

Jeff OTMG · #18 05-24-2002, 01:48 AM

Might I suggest that you find somewhere else to meet guys than a bar. Guys all know that if you are looking to get laid you go to a bar and pick up a girl. This should not come as a surprise. If you want to meet a decent guy, the grocery store is a good place. Church is a good possibility, but not necessarily the singles groups. I would suggest the library, but apparently that may not be a good idea. I don't know how old you are, but getting involved in childrens youth activity programs, like little league, is a good way to meet involved parents. Also places you go where you do business. You can meet gainfully employed people that way. Many girls just go to bars to socialize or dance, guys don't.

aggieAXO · #19 05-24-2002, 02:56 AM

Actually, surprisingly I know alot of people that have met their husband in a bar.

amycat412 · #20 05-24-2002, 01:24 PM

Jeff,

I met the last two guys (prior to the yahoo of this thread)-- 1. at a beach party a friend was having 2. While i was moving out of my apt -he was moving out the same day.

Their behavior was no better.

Its my experience that guys, ESPECIALLY guys in L.A., are just looking to get laid, period.

And you're right, girls don't necessarily go to bars to meet guys. I was there hanging out with my friends on my birthday, couldn't have cared less if I met anyone.

Amy

shultzz · #21 05-24-2002, 01:56 PM

Maybe you should have stayed with Matt, the guy from the 'frustrated by boys" thread. You said he was a nice guy but then you dumped him for the professional soccer player that already had a girlfriend. Matt might not have been all that but you could have stayed in touch with him to meet other nice guys.

amycat412 · #22 05-24-2002, 02:09 PM

lol- I forgot about all that w Matt.

No, he and I were just not compatible, it was not a good situation. Yes, he was a nice guy, but just not for me.

Soccer player- ha ha ha ha I forgot about him. He's hot, but I don't want to go out w him either. He's just looking to get laid as well.

Yeah, I see the pattern here, believe me.

aggieAXO · #23 05-24-2002, 11:30 PM

I also don't go to bars specifically to meet men either, I go with my friends.

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Originally posted by amycat412
Jeff,

And you're right, girls don't necessarily go to bars to meet guys. I was there hanging out with my friends on my birthday, couldn't have cared less if I met anyone.

Amy

Jeff OTMG · #24 05-25-2002, 09:13 PM

Amy, I didn't realize that you are in Calif. I understand the problem. My son grew up there from the time he was 5 until he was 15, when he decided to come live with me in Texas. He was getting that way and I heard the same from him about his friends, and HE WAS 15. I took time to explain to him right and wrong and what respect toward women was all about. I may be a little old fashioned having grown up in Oklahoma, but that is how I lived. I also explained that the women he was meeting were probably not the ones that he would want to spend much time with anyway. He turned out to be a good kid. He is 24, been married a year to a sweet girl from Louisiana, and they have a nice house. He also told me about many girls he met in Calif. They were VERY materialistic.

amycat412 · #25 05-25-2002, 09:49 PM

Yeah Jeff, I think in many ways California, especially the area I live in is a big part of the problem. I love it here, but I didn't grow up here and I am beginning to think, at the ripe old age of 33, that if I want the kind of life I grew up having, I need to move back to my hometown. Now my hometown being Las Vegas makes it sound ironic to someone who may not know the city that lives outside of the casinos, but it is a great place to live. And my friends that have moved back there after 7, 9, 10, 12 years in California--within 2 years of moving back, have fallen in love and gotten married to some truly amazing and wonderful men. Now, that has definitely got me thinking, ha ha ha

Amy

Peaches-n-Cream · #26 05-28-2002, 01:41 AM

Don't come to New York! There are not a lot single and desirable men. The few who are here are for me!

Shelacious · #27 05-28-2002, 01:45 PM

...a notoriously BAD place to meet guys--especially native Californian guys. So Cal may be a bit worse than Nor Cal, but still, many guys don't really have a deep abiding sense of family and committment here as much as I've seen in other parts of the country, generally.

Maybe a cool place to meet guys would be at the airport: we could just stand around the terminals waiting for flights from the South, the SE, the NE and the MW and swoop the guy up as he comes off the plane, starry-eyed and optimistic. By the time he would have normally bought into the materialistic, instant gratification den of inequity known as California, he would already be strung out--then you can wisk him back to live in his hometown!

Hey--I could open up a dating service "From Airport to Homefront." ((visions of dollarsigns dancing in my head)).

amycat412 · #28 05-28-2002, 01:57 PM

LOL Shelacious!!!! Love it!

Tom Earp · #29 05-28-2002, 11:11 PM

Trueisms, Lifesaver is a Texassen, but a LXA so not all bad!

Guys from Calicornia always look in the miroor more than the women!

No one in their right mind lives in NY,NY City, no grass except Central Park and roof tops! Wont get mugged on a roof top!

Remember the guys from and womens from Kansas are Normal! Look at me, No snide comments,please!

Remember, if the Fu Bird Shits on your head you must not take it off or you will die!

Or for those that have no idea I am talking about, where were you when the shit hit the fan?

Goodnight Isis and all of the great loving people of GC!

11 hrs a day is killing me so, Adieu!

Later Dudes And Dudettes!

DeltAlum · #30 05-29-2002, 10:10 PM

What Tom is trying to say is,

"If the Foo sh-ts, wear it!"

The rest of the joke, leading up to that line is just too long and too strange to tell.