Things you want to say - Page 2

PhiSigButterfly · #16 12-21-2001, 02:30 AM

OK I'm not usually really good at getting my anger or frustrations out but nows a good a time as any.
First: To the not so wonderful roomate from this summer who happened to be a very close friend and sister who felt the need to go spreading bullshit rumors about me thinking I would never find out. Next time don't tell one of my best friends. And then try and act all nice to my face. Plus you know me just as well as anyone and the shit you were talking about me you know is the furthest from the truth than anything.
K..Second: Why is it that a guy who you give your all to and he is totally oblivious (sp?) to it while it is happening suddenly when he doesn't have you decides he is madly in love with you and wants everything to do with you. Thats just annoying. You had me then and then you lost me. Deal with it.
Third: I agree with a lot of you about when you are home and mom still wants to treat you like you are still her little 5 year old. Hello mom im 20 years old. In fact in about 3 weeks I could be sitting at a bar with you having a drink. I think that kinda disqualifies me as your little girl. But I do still love you.
And when you think you are away from the drama when you go home it seems to follow you. I'm sure many of you know what I'm talking about.
OK I feel a little better. Although there is still more that I would love to say but just not yet...a little at a time.
Does anyone else feel like they are being kinda harsh on this...or is it kinda stress relieving to get it out?

lifesaver · #17 12-21-2001, 04:53 AM

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Originally posted by AlphaChiS2K
3. To various people walking around campus: Spandex is a privelege, not a right.

but adding in my best david spade voice,

if its 1991.

Where's your campus, staten island?

Note: Not a slam on you, just those who think its ok to wear spandex after 1991. And for those who arent familiar with the NYC area, SI is where your most likely to see spandex STILL being worn. Also the place most likely for it to be acceptable to wear spandex.

lifesaver · #18 12-21-2001, 05:40 AM

My confessions/apologies....

Anthony - I am sorry i fu*ked up and told a few people about you and her messing around. I didnt know everyone would find out about it. I forgot how some of our brothers LOVE to run with that kinda $hit. I was jealous. Simple as that. I was in a bad place in my life. I have apologized to you, and you have accepted, but its not the same. I hope I havent lost you as a buddy. You were a good friend, we had too many good times getting drunk at Howl together. If you dont wanna be like old times I understand. I am dissapointed, but I understand. I did screw up.

Matt - god damn it. I wish the circumstances had been different. I am sorry I came off that way. You were a great friend and wanted nothing more than to be my friend. I thought you wanted Dawn. I treated you like shit. I was 17 and a DUMB ASS. I have always felt bad for it. 10 years later it still bugs me. I learned from it tho. And I now respect people for who they are.

Clarissa - What can I say. I was an idiot who treated you like a dog. We had great times, and I wanst man enough to admitt that I wasnt as interested in you as you were me. It freaked me out. Thats why I acted the way I did. Someday, I hope you can forgive me. I still havent forgiven myself, and its been 6 years.

slams:
Trae - get the fu*k over yourself. You can create whatever image you want and sell it to which ever new members you care to, but dont try and pawn it off on me. 1, I knew you when. 2. I brought your ass into the chapter - have some respect. 3. Dont insult me by pretending to be it. you aint never gonna be it. We can disagree on the issues, but you need to respect MY right to not see things your way, as I respect you right to disagree with me. Look it up online, its called being an adult. Give up the game. I was playing it when you were at 8th grade Prom. I'm gonna win, so play like Enron and just quit. Also, QUIT controlling everyone else around you. Frankly, its pathetic. Specially when we all diagnosed your paranoia about a year ago. The whole chapter knows your mom is whack in the head controll freak and your dads a full on pussy, ala her whipt little bitch. She treated your older sis like shit, and she treated you like shit. yep, it DOES flow downhill. So quit exercising the only controll you feel you can by controlling those lower on the food chain, the NM's. Its so very sad, because the rest of us have it figured out and are all looking at you like the injured deer that just got hit by a car; SO SAD and we hope it dissapears into the woods to save us the pain of having to watch it suffer.

Denise F. - get your head outta your ass. I am about to skate. You aint gonna find no one else who'll put up with your $hit. Youre gonna end up in10 years on a greek posting board bitching about how you screwed up and lost me forever. I am giving you till my birthday to step up. tic toc tic

kudos:
To Kenneth - youre the big brother I never had. you were there for me when my family wasnt. We've been brothers for YEARS now and youre one of the most important people in my life. I dunno what I'd have done if you werent there to bail my ass out time and time again.

Trico - Youre a probably my best friend. thanks for letting me move in for the month till my new apt is ready. Always there with a smile, beer and an eager ear to hear all my BS. probably the best drinkin buddy a guy could ever have. you understand me like no one does. Thanks.

KarenC725 · #19 12-21-2001, 11:03 AM

Just a few more...

Rouzbeh: LEAVE US ALONE. Sorry that since you aren't happy, no one else can be. Rob and I are in a great realtionship. You aren't going to break us up, go away.

Pete: You smell. That about sums it up.

To the old, senile guy at work: I'm not your bitch. You are perfectly capable of making your own copies and talking to photographers on projects YOU set up. Retire already.

aggieAXO · #20 12-21-2001, 11:15 AM

to the technician that complains about being overwt. all the time then goes next door to Dunkin Doughnuts and gets a dozen-put up or shut up. Don't tell me that thin people are unhealthy-you have no rt. to talk. How can you stand yourself??? Either get off your soapbox and onto a treadmill or shut the F*** up.

To the stupid receptionist that feels I am too hard on her. If you weren't such a frickin b**ch and didn't f*** up so much i wouldn't be hard on you. And I would think twice before complaing about me to the boss's wife as I have much more clout (sp?) than you ever will and I will make your life a living hell if you cross me.

To my best friend who complains about not having any savings and then goes out and buys a 1500$ computer-hello, the definition of saving is not spending-why do you not understand this???

Also to my best friend that is dating someone rt. now and only finds time to call me when he is out of town. If and when you guys are no longer together I will be there for you-but when I want to, when i have time, when I am not busy. I will show you the same courtesy you have shown me.

Damn that feels good!!

aggieAXO · #21 12-21-2001, 11:56 AM

And to the SallieMae corporation whom I just got off the phone with, thank you for that 1% interest drop you opted to give me since I have been paying my school loan on time for the last four years, but you really mad me unhappy by the fact that you will not reward me by decreasing the monthly payment but just by the overall amount I will end up owing you.. Thanks soooo much, now instead of owing you 200,000 I only owe you 180,000 -whewwww that makes me feel so much better

This just makes me all the more determined to pay you guys off within the next 2 years.

volgirl2376 · #22 12-21-2001, 12:54 PM

This is exactly what I need! I also have a hard time releasing my negative feelings...so here goes, for nobodys benefit but my own

Michael: I hate what you have done to me. I hate thay you lied about just being friends with that girl Rhonda and I hate that you would get mad at me because I asked if there was more...or question why you would talk to her on the computer while you were at my house. I hate you for sending me an IM and telling me you wanted to break up because you wanted to be with her. I hate you because you were a coward and couldnt do it in person....and the fact that you did this on Christmas Eve. I hate that you destroyed any esteem I had about myself and made me so afraid to trust another guy. I hate even though its almost been a year, there are still days I cant get out of bed because I am just plain sad. I hope she breaks your heart like you did mine...I hope you get her pregnant, you both have to drop out of school, move into a trailer, and have to work at Krystals. Ok that was petty...but the thought is the only thing that makes me smile.

Boss: Stop taking credit for everything we do. Dont flaunt all your freebies...we are the ones making you look good. Dont pretend to be my buddy. You arent and you wont be.

Dad: I know you are getting old...I know how much pain you are in (he has degenerative disc disease)...but stop taking it out on mom by being hateful and sarcastic.

Stacy: Do some freaking work! Stop handing over your stuff to everyone else while you go shopping. Stop taking advantage of your friends.

KarenC725 · #23 12-21-2001, 01:10 PM

AHHHHHHHHHHH! The name Rhonda is evil (apologies to those in the room with the name). That's my bf ex and she is a total witch. I hate what she did to him and the ugly things she said to me.

prospectiverushee · #24 12-21-2001, 06:33 PM

To my ex: Make up your mind already. Either you want me to be your girlfriend or don't. I'm tired of playing this stupid game with you all the time. Also, stop trying to make me feel guilty about moving here to Texas instead of to Georgia where you are. We both know why Texas was the better move for me. It's been 6 months get over it.

To my best friend: I'm not as strong as I appear. I know that when we get on the phone and talk about our ex's we tend to trash them. I'm not as strong as you. I could never stop talking to my ex. I could never cut him out of my life(even though he drives me insane most of the time) I just want to aplogize for being a hypocrite(sp?) when we have our "Waiting to Exhale" moments

To the people at my old job: send me my last paycheck already. You've called me to verify my address, I've left you countless messages to see what the hold up is,I've even left 2 messages on the HR manager's voice mail verifying my address. SEND ME MY CHECK!! Don't make me have to come down there and act a fool. Cause I will do it

Peaches-n-Cream · #25 12-21-2001, 11:45 PM

A guy that I dated last year told me, "I'm involved with four different women from four different states."
I was shocked, "Including me?"
He said "Yeah, including you, Florida, Connecticut, and Pennsylvania."
I said, "Well, now you have one less woman to worry about!"
He said something that I don't recall. I think he thought that I would stick around. Crazy!
I added, "You are a bad man! Leave me alone!" and I walked out and never went back.
I should have told him what a selfish jerk he was and that the only person that he was involved with was himself!
Two months later, I ran into him and one of the members of his harem. He introduced her as "my girlfriend." I should have busted his rap outright and asked which one? Instead, I was nice and polite to her and him, the ba$tard!
Six months after that I ran into him again. (I'm so lucky

) I said something about going away for the weekend and he said "My girlfriend wouldn't like me to go away with you."

I said coolly, "Well my boyfriend wouldn't like you to go away with me, either."
He looked deflated. The ego had landed.

amycat412 · #26 12-22-2001, 05:56 AM

YIKES!
I said my thing I wanted to say tonigt! (see earlier in this thread)
Went well. Only time will tell. YIKES!

prospectiverushee · #27 12-22-2001, 10:46 AM

To R(the guy who was my trainer at my old job): I'm sad that I'm not working there anymore because you were the only thing that made it worth coming to that ghetto place. I wish I could have stuck around so we could go somewhere and have another drink.

I knew that 2 weeks into the training class,I was mad crushing on you. I hope you realize that you are a sexy man and I use to daydream about the things I wanted to do to you

if I ever had the opportunity. Since we live really close,I hope I run into you at the store or something and we can go hang out and have a drink or something

madmax · #28 12-22-2001, 03:16 PM

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Originally posted by amycat412
my random rant--
to the 'friend' who told me he loved me and wanted to be with me, marry me- even tho he is already married...

It was unfair of you to lay your confession on me without any clear plan to end your marrriage. How can you come to me and tell me you made a mistake, are in love with me, want to marry me, have a family with me without a clear plan as to what you plan to do about it. It puts me in a bad and emotional place and it is not fair!

Whew. I feel a little better now.

the writing is on the wall.... if he really wanted to marry you, he would.

volgirl2376 · #29 12-23-2001, 01:43 AM

To my body: pass these !@#$ kidney stones already!

KSigkid · #30 12-23-2001, 12:47 PM

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Originally posted by madmax

the writing is on the wall.... if he really wanted to marry you, he would.

Wow - nice thing to say - even if that's what you're thinking, give us a break, don't say something like that to her. Not a cool comment at all.