HOW TO HELP A FRIEND???

[blondie_babe]

I am glad you never feel bad about yourself when someone else gets something and you don't. Maybe he needs your confidence to not feel beneath others when they succeed. The reason he quit wasn't his fault that other person did something really hurtful. He tried to go back to other bids he had gotten and they did invite him back but it just was weird and I understand that. The thing is he was given the bid he wanted by a top frat which is something to be proud of but then it went South. He has friends in the "smart" frat and whatever others but he just didn't belong as a brother. How can someone not belong? If every frat has some not so cool guys why can't he make it? I have never met a girl to have these issues. WE fit in and find a house.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by blondie_babe

It is just complicated. He has that seemingly common attitude of legacies. He is nothing unless he is as great as his family syndrome. Just to add to his long list of problems being the only non-greek is like another failure. I really do feel bad for him because it just seems unfair to have so many struggles.

Yes. His life sounds so hard.

I hope one day he can work himself up out of the gutter, lift himself by his bootstraps and move on from this tragedy.

Stop trying to "fix" him.

[blondie_babe]

My friend didn't have a 4.0. A friend of his did and was accepted into a frat which my friend was very close with. 4.0 guy went to school with the others and they didn't like him but he was accepted and not my friend? That is the stuff my friend struggles with being friends but not given a chance.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by blondie_babe

I am glad you never feel bad about yourself when someone else gets something and you don't. Maybe he needs your confidence to not feel beneath others when they succeed. The reason he quit wasn't his fault that other person did something really hurtful. He tried to go back to other bids he had gotten and they did invite him back but it just was weird and I understand that. The thing is he was given the bid he wanted by a top frat which is something to be proud of but then it went South. He has friends in the "smart" frat and whatever others but he just didn't belong as a brother. How can someone not belong? If every frat has some not so cool guys why can't he make it? I have never met a girl to have these issues. WE fit in and find a house.

it makes me stop after so many.

[JohnnyCash]

Originally Posted by blondie_babe

It is just complicated. He has that seemingly common attitude of legacies. He is nothing unless he is as great as his family syndrome. Just to add to his long list of problems being the only non-greek is like another failure. I really do feel bad for him because it just seems unfair to have so many struggles.

Well it sounds like your friend is shit outta luck. If you're from a competitive Southern system then you should also know that those top chapters are probably very reluctant to take XYZ's "leftovers" even if HE dropped them and not the other way around.

He should try a "lower tier" chapter if he really wants to go Greek that badly.

Or he could quit being a bitch and get over it.

Also, quit with the run-on sentences.

[ree-Xi]

I smell troll. Is anyone this ignorant?

[blondie_babe]

I am very open to posting his former chapter at UNC. I am very open to list the homosexual because I know him and the others mentioned. Don't think I am above posting very personal information to prove my point. There is another post thread about Texas and how a miniority doesn't have a high chance to get in. Why act like it is common in this thread when you didn't bitch at people who comment daily and said it wasn't? If you are a white guy and are rejected for a homosexual miniority in the South it is a big deal and not common. That makes him feel bad and I get it. Whether it is right or wrong it is the way society works.

[JohnnyCash]

Originally Posted by blondie_babe

I am very open to posting his former chapter at UNC. I am very open to list the homosexual because I know him and the others mentioned. Don't think I am above posting very personal information to prove my point. There is another post thread about Texas and how a miniority doesn't have a high chance to get in. Why act like it is common in this thread when you didn't bitch at people who comment daily and said it wasn't? If you are a white guy and are rejected for a homosexual miniority in the South it is a big deal and not common. That makes him feel bad and I get it. Whether it is right or wrong it is the way society works.

That would be messed up lol.

[Drolefille]

Ok. I officially call Perpberry.

[knight_shadow]

Come on, y'all. Perpberry/mustang strikes again.

The underscore didn't give it away?

[ree-Xi]

I can go to bed now. Even if it's a hoax, the person writing it has the ugliest soul I've seen here in a while. Good night, all!

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by knight_shadow

Come on, y'all. Perpberry/mustang strikes again.

The underscore didn't give it away?

I'm THIS close to 10k posts though.

[preciousjeni]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

You're both losers who think being gay is a bad thing.

Also you say "homosexual" a lot.

I got as far as this post and lost it. LOL! Lemme catch my breath. Hang on...

[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

Also you say "homosexual" a lot.

Probably trying to avoid sounding bigoted by using the scientific term. It fails horrible btw.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

Probably trying to avoid sounding bigoted by using the scientific term. It fails horrible btw.

Particularly when it's pretty much only a clinical/scientific term now. Varies by region of course, but for the most part I've seen a push against using the word for anything.