I swear before holy God I'll never understand the way women think...

[Lil_G]

Lifesaver -

well bud, i read your post over a couple times trying to grasp the situation as best as possible. Also because you contribute so much here we gotta give you the 411...

Lock and Load, i think it may be best to start considering other quail. From what i've heard is that you're giving this girl your all and see doesn't seem to care - until your with another woman. As I think Rob or James mentioned, she expects so much from you (ignoring her nemesis) but ditches you to hit up another party - what the &#$#@?

At least with us guys, we're simple. We know what we want and we go for it. I wouldn't expect some chick to hate some guy i had a beef with and then leave her alone while I took off and the 'while letting her think what's wrong with this guy? I lived with three tri delts one year and could not understood what the hell they were thinking at times.

Oh and BillyMac , some times all a guy needs is a good beating.

If anyone ever figures out the female mind it will definitely be one of us, and we'll all get loaded off the revenues.

[DeltAlum]

You wonder why women "act like that?"

It's like asking, "why do beavers cut down trees?"

It's their job!

By the way, it doesn't change as you get older.

DeltAlum

[ilovemyglo]

I still remember the name of the girl in high school that stole the guy I really liked. He was into me and we talked for a few weeks, they were friends and she got him drunk at a party and slept with him so of course my game was gone. That was 7 years ago! (I am so showing my age!) But I still get agitated when I think about her. She is obnoxious, rude, ugly, she has no sense of humor, she is immature and is very unintelligent. Why do I still harbor resentment towards her? Because she won and that pisses me off. I can't just get mad at him, I have to not like her. I know that makes no sense and it makes me just as immature, but seeing a picture of this girl makes me want to draw mustaches on her and stuff.
Listen to LeeAnn Womack's Ill think of a reason later, it was on her first CD and that kind of sums it up. I hate to lose and your friend is probably the same way, especially when you know that girl didn't deserve him in the first place!

[damasa]

Doesn't change as we get older? Good gosh..i'm never going to get married....forget that!

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[lifesaver]

Killarney, love it. Either you are with us... funny, and timely.

Thanks everyone for your input. As for the protection thing. I dunno. It might be a southern thing. I just feel its my gentelmanly duty (I know KABM got my back on that one) Just the way things are done here, you carry a womans packages, pull her chair out for her, and kinda protect her if you can. But you all are right, I do think she is using me as her surrogate b/f. That needs to stop. We are good friends (without benefits). I have known her for 5 years (she is 23), and really dont think of her in a romantic way. I have a hard time trying to be friends tho when stuff like this happens. I mean, where do you draw the line between friendship and and being used as a stand-in b/f. I am not her b/f and dont wanna be. My interests lie elsewhere. It was wrong of her to bolt to the other party. She was still pissed the next day, and I couldnt help feeling like she was pissed at me. I dont care WHO I am friends with or dating, my rule is dont tell me who to be friends with or talk to. Ya' dont like it? Dont kick it w/me.

Maggie - thanks. I did just let it go, and now we seem to be back to normal, I just have a better sense of whats up, and how she views things, aka our relationship.

ZNTKE731 - Yeah, the bro who was talking smack does that to everyone. Thats kinda why I let it go. AND I am a pacifist. Dont believe in fighting. Well I do if the guy really has it coming, but thats rare. Been in pleanty of fights as a youngin, and dont see the point anymore.

valkyere- I could totally see the possesion thing happening with lisa. At least with southern women they tend to be terretorial with the men in their lives, even brothers and friends, and I could see how she would think that way.


KABM - "But all in all they can both join the long, distinguished, and illustrious line of folks that can kiss my ass, along with Bin Laden, the guy that invented astroturf, and Art Modell. (Go Bengals)" Glad we see eye to eye on this. You good people.

Thanks everyone, gotta run. I'll keep ya updated.

[Optimist Prime]

wow. Thats all i can say about that. wow.

[ilovemyglo]

I gotcha on the southern thing. I cannot walk to my car at night alone because no guy I know will allow it, they say that they would rather be safe than sorry!

[lifesaver]

Originally posted by Lil_G
Oh and BillyMac , some times all a guy needs is a good beating.

Ok. I admit it. I almost got in a fight today. I dunno what came over me. I was helping our new members carry the letters back up to campus today (they had been in my truck since last night after our intramural football game) and I am carrying the Lambda. Some jack ass actually thinks hes funny and tells me, "You got that letter upside down." as he's laughing with his looser quad freak buddies. I had this urge to beat the hell outta him. I dunno why but I wanted to. (It also helped that our two biggest toughest new members were the ones helping me.) So I walk over there (the guy was bigger than me) and get in his face and tell him, "That might have been funny if I hadnt heard it before." I then reach into my pocket, grab a dollar, kinda crumple it a bit for dramatic effect and as I put it into his shirt pocket tell him, "Here's a dollar, go buy yourself some originality." And I wait, ready to have to roll the kid. He backs up and apologizes. I guess its all in the attitude. But I was ready to fight him. gotta do what ya gotta do. BTW, can men PMS?

[Tom Earp]

MY MAIN MAN, I know da feeling, I tried to cement relationships with the house across the street from us one night and BIG BUBBA my body guard got up set because he wanted to rip my face off! I Calmed Bubba down and we went back to the house where I popped my trunck and got out my AR 15 and said lets settle this now! They never forgot that night and I hope they learned a leason, my guys of course!

Hell Moron ought to be a new society in our country as they are like cock roaches, they abound!!!!!!

We are bigger than they are, but I liked your stick, KOOL DUDE! Also nice to have large Brothers with you when you get PISSED!!!!!!


May The Blessed be Blessed and the MORONS find a place IN?????


GOGO BRO!!!

[James]

Well it probably felt good especially because they backed down, he could have just hit you without saying anything. After years of martial arts training the one thing that sticks in your mind is that if you are THAT close to someone i.e. in his face, and he has any skill, you won't stop him from hitting you.

So instead of going on about escalating levels of violence and the consequences . . . I'll just leave it with the quote: "Its always fun and games till someone gets their eye poked out."

PS: if your back up gives you courage, definitely opt out of the fight. Its bad to to rely on others.

Originally posted by lifesaver


Ok. I admit it. I almost got in a fight today. I dunno what came over me. I was helping our new members carry the letters back up to campus today (they had been in my truck since last night after our intramural football game) and I am carrying the Lambda. Some jack ass actually thinks hes funny and tells me, "You got that letter upside down." as he's laughing with his looser quad freak buddies. I had this urge to beat the hell outta him. I dunno why but I wanted to. (It also helped that our two biggest toughest new members were the ones helping me.) So I walk over there (the guy was bigger than me) and get in his face and tell him, "That might have been funny if I hadnt heard it before." I then reach into my pocket, grab a dollar, kinda crumple it a bit for dramatic effect and as I put it into his shirt pocket tell him, "Here's a dollar, go buy yourself some originality." And I wait, ready to have to roll the kid. He backs up and apologizes. I guess its all in the attitude. But I was ready to fight him. gotta do what ya gotta do. BTW, can men PMS?

[James]

[DeltAlum]

Good point, James,

One of the things I remember from my martial arts days -- which were some years ago now -- was to say, "So sorry," and try to get the hell out of the situation. And to use the skills as defensive measures only if necessary.

Besides, there are too many folks walking around armed these days.

[KABillyMac]

Originally posted by Tom Earp
MY MAIN MAN, I know da feeling, I tried to cement relationships with the house across the street from us one night and BIG BUBBA my body guard got up set because he wanted to rip my face off! I Calmed Bubba down and we went back to the house where I popped my trunck and got out my AR 15 and said lets settle this now! They never forgot that night and I hope they learned a leason, my guys of course!

Hell Moron ought to be a new society in our country as they are like cock roaches, they abound!!!!!!

We are bigger than they are, but I liked your stick, KOOL DUDE! Also nice to have large Brothers with you when you get PISSED!!!!!!


May The Blessed be Blessed and the MORONS find a place IN?????
GOGO BRO!!!

Hey Earp, still refuse to post while sober huh? LMAO! The sauce flows like water on your end man. Sheesh. I understood nothing out of that but hey, always love to read your posts.


Getting my 32 on October 27, at a reunion here in Ky. Wanna come down? Almost finished with my York Rite Degrees now. Hope to complete both rites by Nov.

[DeltAlum]

Well, that lowered the level. Short attention span, Max?

[Tom Earp]

Yep, BillyMack, big was one of my guys and the other guy was the one who wanted my face off my cranium!

Mind works faster thay my typing!!!!!! Can you tell! LOL

In my house I am known as the TYPO KING!!!!!!!