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11-10-2008, 05:08 PM
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As long as the person in question fit our ethos and our attitudes, I'm pretty sure we would kill to have royalty of any country.
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11-10-2008, 07:58 PM
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As long as the person in question fit our ethos and our attitudes, I'm pretty sure we would kill to have royalty of any country.
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Elephant Walk you came across as someone from UT in a fraternity? If so is it true that fraternities would only want or not want me cause of my family status? Instead of the other factors like personality, academic success and community contributions.
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11-10-2008, 05:12 PM
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Royalty?
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11-10-2008, 08:47 PM
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I read rich and politician and figured he was the son of some sort of King (or president Bush).
Carlos, the fraternities will want you for alot of different reasons. But family relations are an important part of it (as important as many other factors).
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Overall, though, it's the bigness of the car that counts the most. Because when something bad happens in a really big car – accidentally speeding through the middle of a gang of unruly young people who have been taunting you in a drive-in restaurant, for instance – it happens very far away – way out at the end of your fenders. It's like a civil war in Africa; you know, it doesn't really concern you too much. - P.J. O'Rourke
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11-12-2008, 09:46 PM
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I think it all depends on the school, but honestly I have personally seen some fraternities that might consider someone from Europe, but would more then likely never try to recruit people from countries in Africa or Asia. I personally would love to have foreign students, but the fact is that America isn't always the most foreign friendliest places.
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11-13-2008, 10:35 AM
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I think it all depends on the school, but honestly I have personally seen some fraternities that might consider someone from Europe, but would more then likely never try to recruit people from countries in Africa or Asia. I personally would love to have foreign students, but the fact is that America isn't always the most foreign friendliest places.
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So would I, but I think it would depend on the campus, and the student. At Radford, yeah that could probably happen. It just depends.
Good luck.
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11-13-2008, 11:57 AM
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^^^It's sad because my ex was an Irish forign exchange student and that actually ended up giving her a leg up in social society, but the way I saw students treat many of the other foreign exchange students from non-Euro-American nations was a bit sad. I understand that sometimes there are some language barriers, but that wasn’t the only thing holding these students back. If it was a German or Spanish accent then it was the coolest thing in the world, but many students didn’t want to have anything to do with the Asian or African Students.
Also, we claim we don’t discriminate, but during rush I personally witnessed a friend of mine from another fraternity telling a few of my brothers that we shouldn’t consider one member because of his sexual orientation.
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11-13-2008, 02:14 PM
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Also, we claim we don’t discriminate, but during rush I personally witnessed a friend of mine from another fraternity telling a few of my brothers that we shouldn’t consider one member because of his sexual orientation.
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Oh noes!
Fraternities should never discriminate!
Inclusiveness for ALL!!!!
We need to hand out bids to everyone!!!111shift+1
[yes, I'm secretly Earp's sockpuppet]
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Overall, though, it's the bigness of the car that counts the most. Because when something bad happens in a really big car – accidentally speeding through the middle of a gang of unruly young people who have been taunting you in a drive-in restaurant, for instance – it happens very far away – way out at the end of your fenders. It's like a civil war in Africa; you know, it doesn't really concern you too much. - P.J. O'Rourke
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11-13-2008, 01:30 PM
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^^
Damn, I'd be a little ticked at that just on the principle that it isn't his fraternity's business.
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11-10-2008, 05:20 PM
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My son is in a fraternity at UT and he has a guy in his pledge class from England, so I don't think it matters a bit if you are from England or Uganda or wherever.
If you are a good guy, chances are you'll be fine. Just try to go to some of the summer rush events so you can meet people. The only problem for out of state/country kids is if they don't meet enough people to get a bid. The bigger fraternities usually are done handing out bids before school starts.
Good luck!
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11-10-2008, 07:51 PM
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Thanks srmom that gave me little a confidence, but when are the summer rush events usually due? and if the big fraternities already decide before school starts does that mean i have little chance of getting in them?
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11-11-2008, 12:11 AM
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Pretty much what LoveinZTA said. It's not so much about family backgrounds, it's just that the bigger fraternities tend to pledge the guys they already know from their hometowns so guys from other places really need to make themselves known (in a good way.) The best way to do that is to attend all the spring and summer rush events if you can. There are tons of fraternities on campus though, and just because you aren't able to get to know the guys in the larger groups doesn't mean you won't find a home in some of the other chapters. They really vary a lot and have a variety to offer. So it won't be about where you're from (or not from) but on how well you mesh with the guys you meet. You should be able to find a group where you're comfortable and they think enough of you to offer you a bid. Well, unless you're Idi Amin's son or something. In that case, you might not want to bring that up!
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11-11-2008, 05:43 AM
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lol Idi Amin's son? thankful not, my situation is no where near as bad lol Thanks a lot guys basically from everything I've gathered I think ill be visiting UT and it's chapters this May after I visit other Universities like NYU, Lehigh and Miami.. I've already got an air ticket for Jan and my application forms are sorted. I guess I was just worried about being judged before anyone even saw me, thanks again for the confidence boost guys!!
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11-11-2008, 12:51 PM
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lol Idi Amin's son? thankful not, my situation is no where near as bad lol Thanks a lot guys basically from everything I've gathered I think ill be visiting UT and it's chapters this May after I visit other Universities like NYU, Lehigh and Miami.. I've already got an air ticket for Jan and my application forms are sorted. I guess I was just worried about being judged before anyone even saw me, thanks again for the confidence boost guys!!
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I can't speak for Miami or NYU, but Lehigh will be very open to you. Since it is not a "state" school (private), they get guys from all over. It's also a "brainy" school.
My cousin's son attends Lehigh and he is from Colorado. Even though he is a legacy to at least one chapter (both parents graduated from UT-Austin) and well connected, he decided not to pledge a fraternity. He felt that Lehigh was small enough that pledging was not necessary to meet people and he had many social and leadership oppertunities. Only about 30% of all male students are Greek at Lehigh, down from 42% about 10 years ago.
Fraternities hold their recruitment in January, but they begin their "meet the Greeks in the Fall". What is nice about deferred recruitment is you have 3 months to get to know the guys around campus. One bonus, the fraternity houses at Lehigh are magnificent.
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11-11-2008, 05:23 PM
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I went and looked up Big 10, I was absolutely clueless that its a group of states in the US.
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Hey. Just so you're clear, the Big 10 is not a group of states. It's a group of universities, or more specifically, an athletic conference of universities.
Good luck!
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