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Old 09-23-2005, 11:28 AM
Lindz928 Lindz928 is offline
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I discovered that I've developed one, so I'm on a pill, spermicide and a monogomous releationship.
This sounds like a pretty good defense to me. It's the same one I used to use. Now, I stick with the pill and condoms (mainly since I'm not in a monogomous relationship).

I'm not allergic to latex.... Is this an allergy that has developed for you, or is it something you always had, but just never knew what it was?
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Old 09-23-2005, 11:51 AM
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That idea terrifies me. I will definately keep popping those pills religiously until I am married and CERTAIN that I am ready to have children.

well i don't know if i really plan on getting married - don't see the point of it, really. as for ready to have children, I am. Sure I'm not in the BEST financial situation, but it's not bad, I'm confident I could handle it if it were to happen (certainly better off than my cousin who was pregnant at 18!) [don't forget, I'm in Canada so a lot of expenses you may have down there are diff, and i think maternity leave here is better].

Now, I do agree though staying on the pill or something else if you're not ready - also my doc once told me the risks associated with BC are much less than all the problems that can occur with pregnancy, so yeah it's usually better to stay on the pill. I just have decided that preventing pregnancy is not a high priority anymore. And like i mentioned, it's not like I'm getting any action to begin with. Maybe if I were to get back into a relationship, I might start again.

I have a friend who uses IUD and she loves it. I just get squeamish at the thought of that procedure though (although I'm not usually squeamish about much - heck I've seen my own cervix! thanks to the doc and a hand mirror )
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Old 09-23-2005, 12:41 PM
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I'm not allergic to latex.... Is this an allergy that has developed for you, or is it something you always had, but just never knew what it was?
Doc said it could have developed over time. It didn't affect me so much with my last bf. But as I've gotten older, it seems to have developed into something where I can't have a guy use a latex at all. I won't go into the details of a reaction... it borders along TMI.
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Old 09-23-2005, 12:45 PM
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Doc said it could have developed over time. It didn't affect me so much with my last bf. But as I've gotten older, it seems to have developed into something where I can't have a guy use a latex at all. I won't go into the details of a reaction... it borders along TMI.
Yeah, I have heard about some of the reactions... Not fun.

Interesting that these kind of things can develop over time.... Maybe a change in hormones or something?
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Old 09-23-2005, 12:51 PM
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Yeah, I have heard about some of the reactions... Not fun.

Interesting that these kind of things can develop over time.... Maybe a change in hormones or something?
Maybe... or it was always there, but never surfaced. I've always had "some" sort of issue... but not nearly as bad. So perhaps the developing over time issue isn't the allergy itself, just the severity of it.

(Kinda like I never had allergies prior to moving to Sacramento. Now I get hayfever... )
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Old 09-24-2005, 05:02 PM
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Damn Loose Women!

If You do not want to Get Preggy, Put an Asprin Between You Knees and see if you can have Intercourse!

Q: Do Men Have a good feeling haveing Orgasim, Yes

Q. Do Women have a good feeling having Orgasim, Yes.

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Just do it or not.

Hell You are supposed to be adults!
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Old 09-24-2005, 05:10 PM
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Ewww... I think Tom posting to this thread is enough birth control for us all!
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Old 09-24-2005, 09:45 PM
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Damn Loose Women!

If You do not want to Get Preggy, Put an Asprin Between You Knees and see if you can have Intercourse!

Q: Do Men Have a good feeling haveing Orgasim, Yes

Q. Do Women have a good feeling having Orgasim, Yes.

So, what is the problem?


Just do it or not.

Hell You are supposed to be adults!
What does this mean?
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Old 09-25-2005, 02:46 AM
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Um, I don't mean to offend, but I doubt I will be taking advice from an old drunk dude about birth control.
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Old 09-25-2005, 10:44 AM
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Damn Loose Women!

If You do not want to Get Preggy, Put an Asprin Between You Knees and see if you can have Intercourse!

Q: Do Men Have a good feeling haveing Orgasim, Yes

Q. Do Women have a good feeling having Orgasim, Yes.

So, what is the problem?


Just do it or not.

Hell You are supposed to be adults!

Lay off the bottle. Seriously. In case you didn't know, it takes two to have a baby. Men should be just as interested in birth control. And are women who choose to have sex loose? What about the men?
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Old 09-25-2005, 03:48 PM
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Lay off the bottle.
Enough of that! No reason to say stuff like that.
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Old 09-25-2005, 04:36 PM
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Enough of that! No reason to say stuff like that.
Um, the "lay off the bottle" comment was warranted. I hope he wasn't sober when he called women loose for being concerned about birth control and insinutated that we're not acting like adults. Frankly, that's offensive.
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Old 09-25-2005, 05:24 PM
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Lay off the bottle. Seriously. In case you didn't know, it takes two to have a baby. Men should be just as interested in birth control. And are women who choose to have sex loose? What about the men?
There is no such thing as a loose man, man-whore, or man-ho. They are usually called playas, pimps, or simply "The Man".
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Old 09-25-2005, 05:55 PM
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They are usually called playas, pimps, or simply "The Man".
Women just call them "diseased."
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Old 09-25-2005, 05:56 PM
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Before I finished reading that sentence i was speculating on how flexible you had to be

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I have a friend who uses IUD and she loves it. I just get squeamish at the thought of that procedure though (although I'm not usually squeamish about much - heck I've seen my own cervix! thanks to the doc and a hand mirror )
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