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Originally posted by HotDamnImAPhiMu
I dated a Marine who came back from Iraq and went a little crazy when he got home. A lot of drinking, a couple one night stands, a lot of wild nights out with his buddies.
Two months after he'd been back, he met me. Things were great, we fell in love, he didn't feel the drive to do crazy stuff anymore. Five months after we'd started dating, one of those one night stands called him.
She'd lied about being on the pill, she said, and was 7 months pregnant with his child. A DNA test after the child was born proved the Marine was the father, and it's been a nightmare for the poor guy ever since.
This girl. Has done nothing. But screw him over. I'm not with the guy anymore, but I talk to him every once in awhile, and it's always something different -- the mom filed for some crazy custody situation. Is threatening to sue him because he didn't pay any prenatal costs. Is threatening to move out of state. Wants the dad to date her. Says she's being thrown out of her place. Says she needs money to buy baby formula. Lots of lying, lots of heartache. She even tries to keep the guy from seeing his son, whenever she starts seeing a new guy.
This girl's still doing cocaine and working as a waitress and living off her parents. The guy's life has fallen apart -- he lost a great relationship with a great girl (haha, that'd be me), a *ton* of money on DNA tests, court costs, lawyer's fees, and child support -- and now he's 23, tied to a woman he hates for the next 18 years, and stuck in DC because if he moves anywhere else -- even as a career move! -- that ends his relationship with his kid.
What I'm trying to say is, please don't have a baby with a woman you're not in love with. It's guarenteed heartache. And the baby is pretty screwed -- that's not the home life a child deserves. No matter how together Daddy is, Mommy is a mess, and Mommy's set on making relations between Daddy and son a mess.
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DAYUM HotDamnImAPhiMu!!! Did we date similar lusers???
Cash, honey,
Tell you wannabe Tiki Barber friend that his idea is just plain dumb. He is just asking for more than he bargained for and if he marries just for kids and it still does not make him a decent father...
Why doesn't he just go out and invest like Michael Jackson did and not marry the woman who had his child but have legal rights on her womb and subsequent birth of his child--i.e. surrogate mother? He just has fun as the sperm donor? Hayle, if the chick was bisexual, then he'd be hooked up for life without responsibility...
But bringing children into the world is an ADULT responsibility... We have too many "children" having babies that do NOT take responsibility for their actions--just look at the kiddie courts in your Sunshine State? Drama for your baby's mama...
If your friends want to marry, then hayle, have a mail ordered bridal service, give her US citizenship and send her off on her way after however long the US Immigration with Homeland Security says you have to be married... At least do the nation a service by making more Americans...
And there are many blonde-headed Eastern European chicks begging to be brides...
That's a joke everyone...
But really, y'all need to slow your roll with the RBI's of chicks... That is a quick way to get a bullet in your head or food poisoning... Y'all gonna hook up with one of those Voodoo chicks that buries your underwear out in the front lawn where y'all cain't leave the house...
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