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Originally posted by Corsulian
"say, do you hear that?"
"what?"
"sounds like someone here is getting fatter...and I think it's you"
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HAHAHA...I love it.
In all honesty though, I wouldn't have the first clue how to tell my boyfriend that I think he's getting fat. I solve this problem by simply not having a boyfriend.
As for girls developing eating disorders and distorted images of their bodies and such, honestly I think the criticism from other GIRLS is a bazillion times worse than coming from your boyfriend. Girls, especially in jr high/high school/early college, can be just flat out mean for no reason (I know this b/c I totally was...oops
). I don't think that your significant other telling you that you might think about losing some weight (and doing it nicely of course) is going to hurt you as much as one of your girlfriend's giving you the once over before you go out together and asks if you're "seriously planning to wear that?".
I don't know what I am trying to say, but if your significant other needs to lose weight (health problems, etc.) I would put worrying about hurting their feelings aside and tell them straight up that they have a problem.
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