Your Crush and His Ex

[Gyrl7]

Originally posted by btb87
How can you be sure that he's in a separate room? And if he has no intentions of marrying her, then why isn't he in his own place (or at least have a different roomie elsewhere)?

And for that matter how do you know that is really his ex??? It could be one of those new age couples who love open relationships, but don't tell many people because many people are not so accepting of them. Sure you have a "crush" on him, but that ex is the only thing standing in the way of your happiness. NOT!

Some people will say that same old tired line, I'm only with her/him because of my child. When in fact it's because of their own selfishness. No one is happy, yet no one will leave. If one is that concerned, they would "for the sake of their child" separate for a minute and not let the child continue to see them unhappy and or sleeping in separate bedrooms. Most kids know how to play "house" and most kids know that in the game of house mommy and daddy sleep together. In short that "for the sake of the kid" is tired and played.

In answer to your question though, heel naw I wouldn't date them. If they had their own place as btb said, yes I would. Even if they had to move back in with MAMA for a minute until they found their own spot yes I still would. However, that would be my only exception.