Married to a GLO or Independant?

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Originally posted by ADPi Conniebama
Just wondering how many of us married outside of the greek system so here goes?

1) Is your husband/boyfriend a member of a GLO?
2) If yes, which one? and is he active as an alumni/brother?
3) If no, does he respect your greek affiliation/involvement?
4) or if you are still active as an alumna what does he think about it?

1) My husband is a Sinfonian! (Phi Mu Alpha Sinfornia Men's Music Fraternity)
2) He's not active in the sense of paying for the newsletter or going to any alumni activities ('cause there aren't really any going on, which is a shame). However, he does keep up a chapter mailing list and a chapter alumni web page. His sister's husband is also a Sinfonian, though from another chapter, and they *always* sneak in the handshake when arriving and leaving. It cracks me up every time, since it's like they're trying to be subtle about it, and I can always tell when they're doing it (though I have no idea what the handshake actually is...).
3) NA
4) He generally respects it. I'm only a little active now, since the chapter I alumna-initiated in closed, so I no longer drive down in January for recruitment. He begrudgingly will take off all of the pop tabs on his Sprite cans. -grin- I only end up at 2-3 Alum Assoc activities per year, due to various things, and I'm too far away to host one at home, so he's pretty much fine with it.