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So yes, we do agree, however I do put a huge value on communication- being very clear is very good. If I like someone I will tell them -- I never said I didn't. But you don’t tell people every single day, especially in the beginning. Going out to Chili's and communicating aren't mutually exclusive-- in fact my prior point is the communication is doubled. Verbal +nonverbal= very clear signal.
I guess it just depends on what you like to DO. I like to go out -- with my friends as with anyone else. Restaurants are fun, hiking is fun, bars are fun... if a boy tried to make me sit at home I'd get bored and split. I mean, the only reason I own a television is because someone gave me one!
Although I still maintain that most boys respond to hanging out differently than they do to activity- based dates!
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