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Originally posted by AlethiaSi
i found this thread so its a bit old- but pertinant to my situation. We allowed a good friend of mine from another local to basically become honorary at my local. She would wear letters only for recruitment- but now she's attending meetings and wearing letters- our charm and participating in basically everything. The deal was that she was going to see a two pledge classes go through before she was allowed to be on the roster b/c she's going to my school part time...
recently she's been very shady- she's hooked up with 4 different guys on 4 different occasions - once with another sister and THREE times with me... this past time (last night- with our sou chef at work) just broke it for me... i can't deal and now sisters are telling me that they are upset that she wears letters and hasn't earned them... The situation is completely out of control and i don't know what to do.
Basically, she was having a very difficult family situation and we took her in- she moved into the house- we got jobs togehter (so i'm her taxi) and she's going to school here.... everything she has right now (basically) is because of us and mostly me since i got her here.... and i feel hurt- betrayed- and taken advantage of....
any suggestions?
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I can sympathize, because some of my (more naive) sisters allowed a girl who was the best friend of a legacy to wear one of our jackets. She ended up pledging another sorority. Needless to say, we never did that again.
You just need to sit her down and say "we've given you all these privileges but you haven't given us anything back. You're done. Unless you want to pledge - but if you do, you need to curb your ho-like behavior."
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