DZrose, I'm sorry you have found yourself in this awful position. I somewhat understand because my one of my lil sis's pledge sister/best friend often acts somewhat the same way...she would whine and complain and throw herself in the arms/lap of all the fraternity guys. It was a pain to go out anywhere with her.
Also, my biological sister has a best guy friend that she invites EVERYWHERE and I used to really dislike him!!! Anytime I invite her to the movies, she invites him...if we go out to a family dinner, she invites him...arrgh! I'm getting along with him much better now, but there comes a point when you'll have to sit your pledge sister down and explain that you don't get along with her friend very well and you'd like to spend some time with just her. Don't make it sound like she's not spending time with you or that you can't stand this girl (even though it's the truth), but just explain nicely and make it clear that you'd like some "alone time."
Hope this helps!
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