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Originally posted by Senusret I
I FINALLY did it.
I cut him out of my life.
I asked him if there would EVER be a chance for the two of us and he said "I don't know."
I said, well when you do know, you know how to find me. Until then it's not fair for you to expect me to be "just friends" when we were NEVER that. I don't know how to be "just friends" with you, man! I feel like you just don't want me to hate you!
So he's out the phone and off the buddy list.
Yay me!
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That's the only way to do it. Sticking around, so that he won't feel like the bad guy, will only cause you more pain. In the end, it's all about how you feel. Do you want to have that person in your life at any cost? Even if them being in your life HURTS you? No.
It's a hard decision. It hurts. But, you have to do what you have to do for YOUR well being. As a soror told me, "He's just gotten out of your way for you to meet your husband."
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