thank you so much i really appreciate all this wonderful advice! i am definately keeping my gpa up.. i got a 4.0 last tri and i have 4 teachers who were in a sorority preparying some recomendations as is my aunt who's a DZ alumni. i think i'll have my dad talk to people at his work and find out if anyone there was in a sorority or something.. but yeah i'm definately ready and i will remember to keep an open mind b/c what really matters is how i get along with these girls, not their reputation.
and thanks again for helping me realize that.