I agree. It's kind of like saying middle schoolers should be discouraged from talking about "when I go to college..." because they might not get in.
I've seen a couple disturbing posts ("I really thought I'd be married by the time I was 23...") but really, it comes down to what you want for YOURSELF. Granted, that's not what I want for *me*, but, well, that's why I'm not them.
I think it's important to keep in mind, too, that the women's lib movement is about CHOICES. Getting married, having kids, and staying home with the kiddos shouldn't be looked on as flying in the face of hundreds of years of effort to attain equal rights for women. It's just one more option you have -- just like staying single and working 100 hour weeks as a CEO, or anything in between.
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