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Originally posted by DELTABRAT:
Good topic Soror:
Hey everybody.
I would think it would be difficult to bond with a REALLY BIG line (as Soror Reds put it, like 50+). I wouldn't go so far as to call them paper because I've seen lines of 2 that are "paper...and as Soror DST Love put it, you really don't have a choice in the matter.
I was #14 of 18 and we all are in contact on a very regular basis and have reunions every year. With our line and also a Chapter reunion on our charter date.
The line immediately following mine, for which I was Dean, there were 23 of them. They are all pretty tight as well. I will agree that some factors that may influence the bonding is the length of time of the process and the "activities" that are put before the women/men. Special effort has to be put into providing them with experiences that will allow for bonding. I know it falls on the women (primarily), but I have seen situations where people are so busy running people around that the women have very little time to themselves to bond/study/whatever else.
With lines of 75-100 (I've even heard 150+), I think it would be hard to really bond with everyone. Even in so far as knowing personal information about one another...we won't even discuss passing messages 
Just my opinion.
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Can I just say that: I LOVE MY SORORS!!!!
Anyway, to piggyback on Soror DELTABRAT, a lot depends on situations and activities that the line deals with. As she said, "Special effort has to be put into providing them with experiences that will allow for bonding". And as Soror 12dn94dst said, a lot depends on who even wants to or is trying to bond. And one more quote by FinerWoman10-A-91 that relates to anything in life "...it's something you won't understand...unless you were there." Amen.
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