Could you kiss someone that you do not love?

[James]

I think you are insane . . . I don't intend that in a mean way, but it takes an awful lot of double-thinking to ask that question the way you did.

I mean the first thing I am thinking is . . . just go with it and enjoy yourself. Whya re you being so analytical? The second thing is, just talk to him . . or better yet completely seduce him.

But to answer your direct question. Yeah, I will kiss a girl back I am not in-love with if she kisses me (assuming she is attractive). Thats just wierd bad 80's movie stuff not to indulge.

Originally posted by Buff
Thanks for the encouragement.

I know what you mean about the hard to talk to him about it thing. I really encourage you to express your feelings to him and be honest. I know how that is, I waited a long time to do it as well, but its been like a year's worth of thinking lifted off my mind all in one week. You have no idea what a relief that is. Even if it doesn't work out, at least you won't have to worry the rest of your life about why you didn't tell him you had feelings.