You need to read my post in the Chi Omega Forum...my boyfriend JUST broke up with me on Wednesday via email. My Chi Omega internet sisters can back me up in saying...any guy who does that a. has no balls and b. isn't worthy of dating you.
My previous ex and I dated for a year and a half. Luckily, I didn't have to see him at my school or anything. However at first, it really bothered me to think he could move on and perhaps treat another girl better than me, or love them more than me. But time heals all heart aches. You can ask anyone. The first 6 months are always the hardest. But the lesson I've learned is to not put yourself out there to date before you're ready. And don't do it to show him you've moved on either. You'll just mess up the new relationship and then feel doubly hurt in the end.
Good luck and just know that it DOES get better. Remember that it's okay to cry about it, it's okay to miss him, and it's normal to want to have what you once had. But also know bigger and better things are to come.
With sisterly love,
Hootie
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