okay, this guy wasn't a boyfriend of mine (geez i would rather than die than have him as one)but i have a horror story about him anyway. i met him at a party in his fraternity house because my friend was pledging that house and introduced me to him. anyway this guy, let's call him "joe" and i started talking and stuff. i also talked to the other pledges as well (i mean, you're in their house after all, why act all snobby and not talk right?). anyway at the end of the night i wanted to walk back to the dorms and since joe and i lived in buildings not far from each other we decided to walk back together. on the outside of my building, he started puking and i actually didn't think he could make it across the field to his own building. and since i knew my roommate was in our room anyway, i told him it might be better if he crashed in our room. i wasn't drunk myself, whatever buzz i had was worn off. so he did, and i even gave up my bed for him and slept on the floor...i even gave him water to drink since it has always proved to me that lots of water before going to sleep helps prevent a hangover. anyway so i was doing this good deed, and you would think this guy would be appreciative. next day i saw my friend, the pledge, and he asked me whether it was true that joe and i had sex. seems like joe told some of his brothers that we did...i was so irate...he kept teasing me about it until my roommate had to tell him that she was there in the room to assure him that nothing happened. and then he said the other pledges that i made small talk with were mad that i "went home" with joe. wtf? what, did they expect me to just pass out right in the house? i didn't think so. they also didn't like how i was "flirting" with so many guys at once. now, i perfectly remember that i only made small talk to break the ice, liek "what's your major, etc etc"...i never said a single pick up line or even complimented a guy on any one thing...i was so annoyed, and even though i personally never had a problem w/greek guys before, i can now understand how negative stereotypes about them build up, it's because of ignorant, dumb guys like these ones. needless to say, i never set foot in their house again...and my friend? well sad to say, although he is still nice to me, he acts like an ass to other girls though, which is real sad.
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"To supress our feelings only makes them stronger"--from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon
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