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Originally posted by CarolinaDG
Thank you KDDani, I was about to clarify that myself.
The thing is, I know that I did research different sororities before I went through. I knew that ZTA's philanthropy was Susan G. Komen and that they held Big Man on Campus every year. I knew that the KD's worked with Girl Scouts and the Chi O's had a wing-eating contest Make-A-Wish. I also knew someone in almost every sorority. The thing is, as much as I knew and thought that ABC sorority was where I wanted to go (they were founded on a few things that I really cared about), I was most comfortable in the Delta Gamma room with those girls. And I still am, even though I have friends in all different sororities. I think we're trying to compare apples to oranges here. I personally like the idea of keeping your options open until you're completely sure where you're comfortable, but I understand the thought that you should be completely committed to the sorority or fraternity that you want to pledge before pledging. BUT both systems are different, and that's the beauty of neither of them being purely white or black anymore... you can be a part of either system that you feel more comfortable with.
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Very well said!! That is exactly how i feel now that i am currently researching and trying to get to know the sororities i am in interested in...you cant just look at something this important as a black and white issue or rather rush is 10 or 50 dollars. in the end none of that matters as long you are apart of something that you feel you are very comfortable in and as long as you love it you need not to denfend your decison to anyone......thats just how i feel anyway
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