"He's Just Not That Into You"...

[wrigley]

I just got the book and started reading it. From what I've read so far, sigmagrrl I disagree that this book is insulting to women. Have you actually read this book?

Unfortunately there are guys out there who send mixed signals. Instead of saying ,"hey I don't want to see you anymore" or "It's not going to work out and we see to see other people", they avoid confrontation or the dreaded "the talk". There are many of us who would have appreciated that instead of the breakup via email, phonecall, or etc..I appreciate that Greg Behrendt,one of the authors, actually tells women they don't have to put with men who treat them like dirt. As well Liz Tuccillo provides a womens perspective as to why some women continue to put up with shabby treatment. It will help some see through a mirage of what appears to be a quality guy when he's actually being a jerk.

There are books out there for men about relationships with women. Check amazon.com.

This book is a complete opposite from "The Rules". That book was much more insulting to women and matches your description. It was filled with schemes, lies, and games. Ironically both authors of "The Rules" are now divorced.