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Originally posted by NuQueen04
I agree with you... Society is perpetuating a culture that generates boys instead of men for numerous reasons. There are alot of Boys Pretending To Be Men (BP2BM) Boys automatically think something is wrong with a woman abstaining from sex. LOL, they buy into that high school mentality "well, everybody's doing it" Reality check folks: AIDS!!!
A real man would be honored to be in the presence of a woman that places such a high value on herself.
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Although a real man would be honored, that doesn't necessarily mean that he was to get with her program either. The aforementioned comebacks aim at her are not cool at all, but at the same time a "real" man doesn't have to jump at the chance to be with her either. No, everyone is not having sex, but everyone that is not currently sexually active with someone is not waiting for marriage or "the one" either.
Personally, I am not practicing abstinence or celibacy. Therefore, if I come across someone that is waiting until marriage then I would not want to waste my time or theirs. If that makes me something less than a "real" man then oh well. I don't think that there is anything wrong with a woman abstaining from sex, but that wouldn't be my ideal mate.
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