ktsnake has a point if you feel that it's not worth it since ties were cut by her. It's sounds like you've already moved on despite the void she left in your life.
On the other hand, she obviously was going through something big in her life. It was to a point that her personality changed and I'm sure you're not the only one who noticed this. For whatever reason she felt that she couldn't share what was going on with you. If you want to reestablish contact do so but be cautious. Ask the hard questions and find out what was going on so you can have closure. With her telling you her side of things, it will fill the pieces to the puzzlement that you felt. Also let her know how her silence affected you.
I don't think she took the friendship as a convenience. Sometimes situations or events happen and you can't let the people closest to you know what goes on as quickly as you would like. I'm not saying what she did was right. I doubt she's had an easy time either.
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