forgiving a SO for cheating...

[AKA_Monet]

First off, in Relationships 101, the offending person that cheats is DEFINITELY NOT THINKING ABOUT THE OTHER COMMITTED PERSON!!! Much less are they thinking about themselves other than the sex (or whatever it is they are doing)...

So it doesn't matter where this man was, what time zone, what planet, if he loved you with all his heart, he would have not cheated on you. In my opinion, there is NO SUCH THING AS A DIVIDED LOVE!!!

What he is doing is called manipulation...

So from that point, you need to decide what "how you are going to play this game or how you are going to do this dance"???

Because, I can tell you, he NOT thinking about you, if at all, if he is cheating on you... He is only thinking about himself.

What are you going to do if you take him back and he cheats again on you? And this time, he has gotten the other woman pregnant? What if he is on the "down low"? Who knows, he cheats on you with different people? What about diseases he brings into your "temple"?

Because if your body is your "temple", then how is he going to defile it by making foul offerings up to you? Is that not blasphemy unto you?

Gwirlfriend, you are WAAAY better than this man to have the wonder of you!!!

Read Ilyanna Vanzant's "In The Meantime"... You might see a whole different light to things...