Should I tell him about the "baby"

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please tell him. at the risk of repeating what already has been said, it needs to be emphasized. he deserves to know, especially if you are back together. you don't want to have to carry around this guilt. if the secret hasn't done so already, it will come back full force and become a heavy burden, because you were not honest in the first place. this is not just about being pregnant, it could be anything. when it seriously concerns the two of you, communication is the best. no one said it will be easy, but it is important that it is out in the open. when the guy is still in your life, you don't need to be carrying this burden on your own.