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Originally posted by cashmoney
So what kind of stress does that put on you're relationship? And how do you handle it?
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There have been some nasty family fights regarding the things one of them will say about the other to me.
i realize my husband isn't perfect, my mom isn't either--but neither am I (dont tell them though! ha)
It gets old being in the middle of their crap. How do we handle it?--- I have tried to cut both of them off when they start their crap about the other. That seems to be the easiest solution, but it doesn't always work. They are starting to figure it out. There have been several times I have broken into loud screaming fits telling them to knock off their crap. Usually after a screaming fit, telling them to take care of their problems with each other, leave me out of it, and get over it. That usually works for several weeks.
It sucks not to have a happy little married family. But I have to maintain a balance between them. I also know when to step in and be the buffer. It sucks--but someone has to stand up to both of them. If not, it is HELL to deal with either one of them.
Hope I have answered your questions-- I feel like I have ramblem on without actually saying anything.
-wendi
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