I love my friends to death, but if I hear one more time, "why didn't he call" I think I'm going to scream. This article came right on time and thought I'd share.
Zero Calls, And One Cruel Answer
Why Men Don't Phone: It's Not Him, It's You
By Roxanne Roberts
Washington Post Staff Writer
Monday, August 23, 2004; Page C01
It was a great date. He promised to call. He never called.
The average single woman will stare at the phone, willing it to ring. A long list of possibilities noisily circle through her brain, like a hamster on an exercise wheel: He lost my number. He's really busy. He's intimidated. I talked too much. I drank too much. I slept with him. I didn't sleep with him. Ei-yi-yi . . .
No, no, no. None of the above. The answer, according to author Greg Behrendt, is that he's not really interested. Doesn't matter why. No ego-soothing platitudes. No pop psychology. No cute relationship tricks.
He's just not that into you. The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable.
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