"You'll end up where you were meant to"...

[FSUZeta]

but being in the house that is right for you!! obviously, you based your decision on what was right for you and that is wonderful. one of my very best friends at fsu was an alpha gam, and alpha gam was the right choice for her too. beth could have joined zeta, but her heart was with agd. i could have joined agd, but my heart was with zta. did it diminish our brand new friendship?no. different folks have different criteria. that's life.

i don't think that most pnms are going thru recruitment looking at the "big picture." they are concentrating on the chapters on their campus.

and as for mothers wanting their children in certain houses, i would LOVE for my high school daughter to pledge zta when she goes off to college. but i am smart enough to realize that she will have to make her own decision based on her own criteria. and if i choose to post her recruitment experience, and your sorority has a chapter on that campus, i hope that you all will not be insulted if my daughter does not choose to join that chapter, just as i will not be insulted if she doesn't choose zta.