while some may believe in
the fickle finger of fate, and others may not, the gist of this post is to advise us NOT to tell pnms what we believe in (or don't). do we honestly believe that by answering a devastated pnm poster, who was not invited back to a single party, with a "well, it was meant to be", that that is going to make her feel better? a more compassionate post would be "oh, i am so sorry." short & sweet.
it is all that needs to be said, and will not leave a pnm feeling worse than she already does. Lisa
ps: thanks to whomever revived this thread. as recruitment fast approaches, we need these reminders.
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