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Originally posted by XOMichelle
I think part of the problem is that some girls refuse to join chatpers based on the idea that they aren't cool if they don't join a top house, and not for any other concrete reasons. I come from a local chapter that has a lot of girls come in saying they don't want to join, and I had a great experience. It's a big slap in my face for a PNM to say "I'm too good to join your house".
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It is a slap, but at the same time be thankful that that girl *isn't* a member of your house with that attitude! One person who thinks they're "above" the rest of their sisterhood can tear a chapter apart.
~ Mel.
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