Just be there and most importantly, LISTEN. I once made the mistake of telling a friend my opinion of her unexpected pregnancy. She hasn't spoken to me since. It's better to be a friend and listen instead of judgemental bitch like I was at the time. I've learned my lesson & wish I hadn't been so stupid as to try to give opinions over someone elses life. It's been 8 years but some things you don't forget or forgive.
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