actually this sounds just like a guy one of my friends was recently seeing. he told her flat out that he just got out of a long-term thing so he didn't want anything except fun. he im's her all the time too, doesn't really go out with her anywhere but will call her on a Fri or Sat nite when she is out and ask her to "stop by on her way home". if someone is just looking for a sexual relationship they are not gonna change for you. i agree that he is not at the point in his life where he is looking to settle down.
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