Sex on the First Date - Page 3

starang21 · #31 05-31-2004, 03:46 AM

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Originally posted by KSig RC
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If I didn't think emoticons were the silliest things ever, this would necessitate the one that rolls its eyes perpetually.

Holy crap. The line I cut out for you is exactly the point - you're allowing a double standard to exist, and even chalking it up to some sort of 'male ego' as if it were something real, tangible, and unavoidable.

This is just like the "human nature" fallacy - you're allowing stupid behavior to occur under the guise of some sort of fictitious implicit flaw.

Don't. [/B]

hey, this is a double standard point blank. do i want my woman to be the town bike? hell no. she can get wifed up by some other guy, but it won't be me. besides, her reputation has already been tarnished in my eyes...i could give a sh*t if she's a born again virgin. her hoestory is news on the yard enough for me to never get her anything more than a dollar menu (if that). that's point blank, if i'm a pig for it..so be it, most guys think this....they just might not say it around women.

abaici · #32 05-31-2004, 06:09 AM

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Originally posted by KSig RC
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If I didn't think emoticons were the silliest things ever, this would necessitate the one that rolls its eyes perpetually.[/B]

Dude, it's called sarcasm. Just a joke...ha ha. Oh, nevermind...

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Holy crap. The line I cut out for you is exactly the point - you're allowing a double standard to exist, and even chalking it up to some sort of 'male ego' as if it were something real, tangible, and unavoidable.

This is just like the "human nature" fallacy - you're allowing stupid behavior to occur under the guise of some sort of fictitious implicit flaw.

Don't. [/B]

Double standards are unfortunate. However, it's silly to pretend that they do not exist.

preciousjeni · #33 05-31-2004, 09:21 AM

People, stop the madness!! Even if you DO respect each other, sex on the first date sets a precedent and it difficult to get away from the fact that your relationship is literally based on sex.

PhiPsiRuss · #34 05-31-2004, 01:21 PM

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Originally posted by abaici
They don't want to know that all of their boys and half the campus/town have hit it. Most men and their egos cannot handle that.

This isn't about ego, its about the economics of sexual reproduction. Babies are resource intensive, and men want to know that they aren't raising someone else's baby.

starang21 · #35 05-31-2004, 01:23 PM

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Originally posted by PhiPsiRuss
This isn't about ego, its about the economics of sexual reproduction. Babies are resource intensive, and men want to know that they aren't raising someone else's baby.

why? if that was the case, maury povich would be out of a job.

Nikki_DZ · #36 05-31-2004, 01:27 PM

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Originally posted by preciousjeni
People, stop the madness!! Even if you DO respect each other, sex on the first date sets a precedent and it difficult to get away from the fact that your relationship is literally based on sex.

What madness? If someone is a mature adult capable to making the decision to pursue a sexual relationship of any kind, then to each their own. No one is forcing you to do so, don't judge others and the decisions they make, plain and simple.

James · #37 05-31-2004, 02:30 PM

Relationships NOT based on sex are called friendships.

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Originally posted by preciousjeni
People, stop the madness!! Even if you DO respect each other, sex on the first date sets a precedent and it difficult to get away from the fact that your relationship is literally based on sex.

DeltaBetaBaby · #38 05-31-2004, 02:43 PM

and there is no such thing between a man and a woman.

PhiPsiRuss · #39 05-31-2004, 02:59 PM

abaici · #40 05-31-2004, 03:16 PM

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Originally posted by James
Relationships NOT based on sex are called friendships.

Funny, and true.

preciousjeni · #41 05-31-2004, 04:45 PM

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Originally posted by Nikki_DZ
What madness? If someone is a mature adult capable to making the decision to pursue a sexual relationship of any kind, then to each their own. No one is forcing you to do so, don't judge others and the decisions they make, plain and simple.

Whoa! Who am I judging? I never said people who have sex on the first date are bad or evil. I said it sets a precedent that could become a problem later in the relationship.

swissmiss04 · #42 05-31-2004, 04:48 PM

I would never have sex on a first date, even if the guy and I already knew each other or were friends. I'm not saying that I'd be a cocktease or play games, but in my opinion sex is something I want to build up to. The emotional and mental intimacy has to be there or else sex is no fun.

preciousjeni · #43 05-31-2004, 04:48 PM

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Originally posted by James
Relationships NOT based on sex are called friendships.

No. There is no such thing as a purely platonic relationship. We are animals and regardless of what we think we know, we will have some sort of sexual attraction to friends and mates.

If you can establish yourself in an emotional relationship before establishing the sexual aspect, your relationship will only be stronger for it.

preciousjeni · #44 06-02-2004, 09:30 PM

*Bump*

And might I add that James' location (A pimple on the ass of a demon in the 8th circle of hell . . aka: NJ) is a bit frightening!! LOL!

KSig RC · #45 06-02-2004, 10:06 PM

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Originally posted by abaici
Dude, it's called sarcasm. Just a joke...ha ha. Oh, nevermind...

i rolled my virtual eyes b/c i thought the joke was a little weak. that's all dude

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Originally posted by abaici
Double standards are unfortunate. However, it's silly to pretend that they do not exist.

I'm not pretending it doesn't exist - quite the contrary, I'm pointing out what type of behavior leads to it, and why i don't think it's cool to 'excuse' it.

I say, do it on the first date if you're down, if you're building or have other teasery up your sleeve - sweet, do you. but i think it's perfectly normal, natural, and healthy to want to get down the first date.

sorry.