Personally, I don't think it's anyone's business who sleeps with whom. The only reason I would be concerned about someone's sexual orientation is if that person was interested in ME. In my opinion, it's silly to assume that just because a woman is attracted to other women she's automatically going to be attracted to me. I'm not attracted to every man I see, so what's the difference?
If a woman is active in the community, carries herself well, behaves accordingly in public, has the academic standards we require (actually, I lean more toward women who EXCEED the academic standards we require), then as far as I'm concerned, it matters not one bit what she does on her own free time (as long as she does it with consenting adults)
Finding love in this world is a rare and beautiful thing, and anyone who is lucky enough to find it ought to be celebrated, not shunned. I guess I can relate to being shunned since I've had people turn their noses up at me because my husband isn't Black, and also because I have gay people in my family... but it's bigger than that. We all need to be realistic -- just as there are non-black Greeks, I know for a fact that there are more than a few non-heterosexual ones as well.
(stepping off my soap box now)
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Originally posted by RaHel:
I noticed that no one has started a thread on this topic. What are you guys'and gals' thoughts about this?
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[This message has been edited by SoTrue1920 (edited March 03, 2001).]
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