@ BabyBlue- Im still kinda confused by what u mean by apperance? , although this could just be one of my off days & im just slow...lol
I usually do it in person, but I dont like it when people nag about it constantly..."Oh girl you would be so cute if you did this" Hearing this about 1000's times over will make you not want to take their helpful suggestion.
We use to do makeovers on each other in H.S. that kinda help too.
Personally, I have my good apperance days and others I look like a hot mess, and after years of nagging by my mother and sisters and rebelling against what they thought was "acceptable" I finally found my niche...took a while, but im there...maybe w/o the critical nagging it couldve happened earlier and I would stop getting "Wow you look alot better than what you did in H.S.!!" thanks...I think.
SO dont nag...please dont nag