Men and women and breakups: Dissapointment vs. Betrayal

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

I've actually never gotten vindictive towards any guy I've dated. I've really hated one, but it was for far more than the break up (which I did).

I figure, no matter how things end, at some point in time I really liked the guy and I really enjoyed being with him otherwise I would have ended it before he did. What does it say about my taste in men if I suddenly decide he's scum of the earth......