|
I think married members and pregnant members are two entirely different ballgames. We have a sister who got married during her new member period. Her fiance, who is in the military, was being sent out of the country. She still lives in the dorm, and participates in a lot of things. Her husband is back in the US now, and he is very supportive. He comes to visit, comes to formals, etc. Being married is not a huge time commitment, at least not any more than a very serious relationship! People who are married still live lives outside of their spouses. I see no problem with it.
I would not make the same statement about a pregnant potential member or a member with a child.
__________________
phi mu
|
Hybrid Mode
